17 Apr 2016
He tells me how hot a guy is and what heaÂÂd like to have done to him, but when it comes to our own sex, thereaÂÂs nothing lately.
Has he gone off me?-One + One = ZeroIf you had a boyfriend with a foot kink and suddenly you wore shoes to bed (and not sexy shoes, but something hideous like Kanye West designs) and he lost interest in you because your feet were inaccessible, would you be asking the same question?He's into threesomes but not twosomes...
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10 Apr 2016
Maybe IaÂÂm worrying over nothing, but do you have any tips to avoid this being a disaster in the making?-Vexed VacationerBreak up with him just before the vacation and go out on a single date with a new guy and invite him on vacation for your second date.
He'll probably be creeped out that you're moving so fast, but if you pay for everything, he's likely to just fake it and go along with you for the vacation experience itself...
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3 Apr 2016
We are about to buy a place together, and IaÂÂm struggling to decide how we should fund it fairly.
ItaÂÂs not that I donaÂÂt want to pay the majority of our mortgage or deposit, but I donaÂÂt want him to feel itaÂÂs not ours...
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27 Mar 2016
But, even if I'm that, I'm an ugly loser with a high sex drive (plus a kinky streak).
And I just haven't been very social lately...
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13 Mar 2016
IaÂÂve been reading some BDSM stories and finding myself curious to try submitting to a Master.
IaÂÂm pretty nervous about stepping into the zone though...
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6 Mar 2016
I am trying to organise something special for my boyfriendaÂÂs birthday, but we have such different interests and I canaÂÂt even begin to think what he would enjoy.
That way it's both a sex toy and a passive aggressive way to tell your boyfriend you want to have a three-way...
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28 Feb 2016
I'm worried heaÂÂll say no because of that alone, but I want him to know I want him to be my husband, when and if that ever happens.
What would you do?-Groom Without a GroomWhat I would do is realize I'm not attracted to him in the long run and break up with him, because I'd made the wrong choice of guy in the first place and should have focused on being friends with him instead of pursuing anything romantic...
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21 Feb 2016
Things like going for coffee and maybe a few drinks, and going out for lunch together.
I think heaÂÂs cute, but if I took that as a green light to fool around with him, wonaÂÂt that make being friends awkward?-Friend Without BenefitsHim flirting with you is him flirting with you...
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14 Feb 2016
IaÂÂm looking for somebody with a specific fetish.
IaÂÂm really into smoking and wanking, I donaÂÂt necessarily want any physical sex, just go get off with a guy who likes smoking too...
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7 Feb 2016
Seems like you're doing your best to counter that because you're the one who's confused.He totally knows what he wants: sex play with an air of the forbidden.
If he actually thought it was wrong, he'd be checking into some ex-gay conversion program (which totally wouldn't work of course)...
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31 Jan 2016
IaÂÂm in a relationship with a guy who loves to play on cam.
Am I being ridiculous or is this something I should be trying to put a stop to?-Out of the SpotlightIf by put a stop to, you mean realize itaÂÂs futile and ridiculous to try to change someone so you mean break up with him, then go for it...
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24 Jan 2016
IaÂÂve tried a few times with different guys and it just isnaÂÂt the same.
I need to stop for health reasons but just canaÂÂt...
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17 Jan 2016
IaÂÂm really into watching my boyfriend get fucked by other guys, but he doesnaÂÂt know IaÂÂm watching.
I catch him out at home setting up hookups when he thinks IaÂÂm at work and I found a great spot to watch from...
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3 Jan 2016
I'm a 31 year old guy and I'm having trouble talking to my friends about my life.
They're mainly all straight and they know I'm gay...
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26 Dec 2015
Hope for the best but plan for the worst, right?
Or maybe it's whore for the best but plan for divorce?..
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