19 Nov 2016
He's incredibly selfish and it's something that was originally quite horny, with him being arrogant and self-centred.
Now it's impacting on important things in life and I need to convince him my feelings are important too...
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7 Nov 2016
I just think those kinds of things should be private.-So Not ListeningWhat do you want?
Or to be treated maybe in some overcompensating way so they can prove they're not disgusted by you?I have no measure for this beyond having met "the parents" of people I've dated and our boyfriend relationship to be treated as asexual...
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30 Oct 2016
Is there some kind of code?- Sauna VirginYes, and I'm not telling you.
Because all normal sex rules go out the window at a bathhouse/sauna despite that they don't often have actual windows...
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23 Oct 2016
Do I just quietly leave things alone or demand an explanation?-So SingleI absolutely think you need to demand an explanation.
So you march yourself right to your bathroom, look at yourself in the mirror and say "What the fuck is going on with you?"Because you seem to have confused being on good terms with an ex with being on permanent good terms with an ex...
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16 Oct 2016
I've met a new guy and I don't want to scare him off with my fetishism.
How do I tell him?-Material WitnessActually you do want to scare him off if he's not a match...
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9 Oct 2016
I have a phobia of drag queens.
I have absolutely nothing against cross-dressing, or trans women at all, but drag queens and their garish makeup and loud personalities scare me...
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2 Oct 2016
Also someone seemingly more confidently open about themselves would commonly interact with folks who aren't.
Some super-revealing, instantly-intimate person who comes off as both crazy intense and crazy fake...
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25 Sep 2016
Even though we're not quite there yet, I've been thinking about sucking his cock.
I get turned off by a weak handshake...
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18 Sep 2016
How can I make sure I donaÂÂt push him away with my overbearing need to speak to or text him?-SOSPeople like to feel needed, but only to a point.
After that, it can feel like a second job...
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11 Sep 2016
Something incredibly embarrassing happened to me at a dance club the other day.
The fact I had a semi boner wasnaÂÂt really an issue because it just looked like I was packing and thataÂÂs a good thing, right?..
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4 Sep 2016
IaÂÂve just moved into a new place with my boyfriend of 8 months and I have realised he has an awful lot of stuff.
Our place just isnaÂÂt big enough to store all his clobber but he is so very attached to it all...
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28 Aug 2016
They make me so horny and I canaÂÂt stop getting turned on watching all those fit, athletic men getting sweaty in skin-hugging, and skin-revealing, gear.
Now when I'm watching sports with my family, or even out on the street , I can't help but spot bulges and get turned on...
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20 Aug 2016
I feel like my boyfriend likes me less because I lost weight.
He denies he has lost interest in me physically, but how can I tell for sure?-Less Is Not MoreHow did that conversation go?You: "Have you lost interest in me physically?..
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13 Aug 2016
I get really pissed off when they hang out with us all the time.
ThereaÂÂs so much history there that itaÂÂs hard for me to develop anything with the guy I like while his ex is around us all the time.-Hexed by ExesYou're completely abnormal to have an emotional reaction to having someone's ex around all the time...
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7 Aug 2016
Unless you count writing scratched or scrawled onto bathroom stall walls.
Or written on parchment by sex-crazed homo monks.At some point, there were bar guides put out, and some of those included mentions of other environs...
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