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Except when they're not everywhere. Sometimes you're in a hunk desert. Isn't that awful? But reminds you of the importance of really looking hard when you do spot someone. Really appreciating it. And (here's the totally crazy, fucked up part), smiling and/or saying hello if at all possible.

Then something may end up happening beyond looking. I get that so much of our socializing is online, but nothing can replace 3D, in-person, for-real encounters. You can read someone's energy. Like maybe the guy looks amazing but strikes you as terrifying. So steer clear. But maybe he looks amazing and has amazing energy. Steer right to him.

I’m in a relationship with a guy who loves to play on cam. It’s not exactly cheating, since he’s not doing anything physical, but I do get jealous. Am I being ridiculous or is this something I should be trying to put a stop to?
-Out of the Spotlight

If by put a stop to, you mean realize it’s futile and ridiculous to try to change someone so you mean break up with him, then go for it. Because the guy you’re in a relationship with is into this, and is into telling you he’s into this. Sounds like he didn’t check out how you’d feel about it though. It’s just part of the package you get with him.

And by the way he is doing something physical. He’s physically touching himself, getting naked, talking or text chatting, and jacking off and/or ejaculating and/or inserting stuff in his stuff. That’s physical.

There are a lot of things you could be doing besides looking at this guy's dick. I mean, a total lot. And not just involving looking at other stuff. Stuff besides this guy's dick. But you should look at this guy's dick. Totally do. He wants you to. He wants the hotel hallway to. Plus you. But still there are other things you could be doing, such as:

I think I’m addicted to chem sex. I don’t seem to be able to get fucked or fuck unless I’m high. I’ve tried a few times with different guys and it just isn’t the same. I need to stop for health reasons but just can’t. The only thing I can see working is not having sex, but that’s going to be almost impossible. How can I win?
-Chemical Impulses

I think it's totally fine to have sex while in a lab coat. I know my chemistry teacher looked hot in his. Plus with his dress pants underneath, it was a whole situation of exciting hormonal business stirring afoot. Or those are the metaphors of my dreams. Actually I only took chemistry in high school and my teacher was a never-married Italian dykish lady. Just like I'll be someday! Minus the Italian part.

Oh, I just read the rest of your question. Sounds like you're addicted to tina. And I don't mean F-list actress Tina Yothers of Family Tiesfame and nothing else. I mean meth or whatever it's called. I don't take any nor am I a detox professional so asking me this question is officially your addiction talking because you know I can't help you.

Treasure Island Media releases the latest in the Legendary collection. Jerry Stearns is incredibly well-endowed and has some physical attributes that most men would envy too. This collection shows scene after scene of Jerry Stearns pounding ass, and showing the reaction of the men he fucks. If you haven't seen Stearns pound raw ass then you haven't lived yet!

I’m really into watching my boyfriend get fucked by other guys, but he doesn’t know I’m watching. That’s part of the fun for me, but I have a sense of guilt afterwards as I feel I am lying to him. I catch him out at home setting up hookups when he thinks I’m at work and I found a great spot to watch from. What should I do?
-The Ethical Peeper

Since he hasn't flat out asked you, "oh by the way, instead of being at work in the entire expected time frame, were you secretly still lurking at home in some hideway within our place, listening and watching me arrange surreptitious hookups with strangers in our bed then watching us fuck while you jacked off?" then you're not a liar, because you never answered that question with a no.

Back in August it was announced that you were returning to TitanMen. How is it to be back at one of the world’s most revered gay porn studios?

It feels great, I was in talks with TitanMen way before August but was keeping things under wrap until everything panned out. Feels good to be home again.

Can you talk to us a little bit about what you’ve filmed since returning to the studio, and what made you decide to go back?

Since returning back to TitanMen, you can see me in the release Icons, a neoprene fantasy themed movie...and a Classic Leatherman movie that will be off the charts. In talking with TitanMen, they made me excited again to be a porn star. I created a lot of classics over at TitanMen and that is where I first got my shot. When it was explained to Me, that they were redesigning the site, Rebranding themselves and wanted Me to be apart of that, I jumped at the opportunity. I just want to make good porn, something edgy/hot/dirty and just have fun making porn again.

I'm a 31 year old guy and I'm having trouble talking to my friends about my life. They're mainly all straight and they know I'm gay. I'm out of the closet. But every time they ask me about my private life, even so much as to see if I am dating someone, I get uncomfortable and change the subject. Why might I be struggling so much with talking to my friends about my life?
-Silent Treatment

31? And still using the phrase "out of the closet"? How retro gay chic. How 18th century. Anyhow, it's probably a combination of the following reasons:

My Friends Feet are excited to announce that they'll be featuring in an upcoming documentary, Tickled. The programme will be premiering at the prestigious Sundance Film Festival in January 2016. The "growing male tickling fetish world", which includes producers, directors and models alike is the focus of the documentary, and follows their many different encounters. More information for the documentary is available at TickledMovie.com.

• Yes, totally go out with this guy, but only if you are "a dude who understand how to have sex and have an argument." Here are some ideas for argument starters.
• Why the fuck do you live in Puyallup?
• You did understand me, right, because you speak profanity as one of your four languages? Bitch.
• What's it like to be "far more educated than both you or I want [you] to be"? Is that a tremendous burden? Does education ruin everything in our lives because you know so much there is no point in any communication or reading or listening or math or nutting? 
• Are you turned on by my misspelled double negative in the prior question? 
• What are you a doctor of?
• Sorry, I mean "Of what are you a doctor?" Rectums? Are you a rectum doctor? I mean a doctor of rectums? Man, you are hard to talk to. Unbearable, really.

I'm going to get some water then come up with more ways to argue with you as you are so raring to argue I figure the moment's delay will further rile you. Okay, I'm back. Here are some more.

I’m going to be alone this Christmas and New Year. I never have been before so not sure what I should do! Normally I’d have my apron on cooking for friends or family but that’s not possible this year. Suggest to me something I can do that isn’t sad or moronic.
-So So Solo

Well this won't reach you in time for Christmas, but let's assume you'll be alone next Christmas too. Hope for the best but plan for the worst, right? Or maybe it's whore for the best but plan for divorce? I really can't remember because I'm in the midst of a holiday party as I right this. I'm definitely not doing something sad or moronic.

The best advice is to volunteer at a shelter. Cook for people in need so you can still wear your Tom of Finland apron you love so much. I'm assuming that's your style but it's even money on that.

As the year draws to a close, it's time for MEN.com to ask who your favourite Top To Bottom star is? From Colby Jansen to Paddy O'Brian, Dato Foland to Topher DiMaggio, which top rocked your world when he bottomed on the MEN.com sub-site Top To Bottom? Sound off in the comments and let us know why!

I think I have a sex addiction. I am never satisfied and sometimes 2 or 3 hookups in the same night isn't enough. I need more all the time. I've found myself in saunas, clubs and cruising grounds; and spending hours and hours on Grindr It has started to affect my work and social life. You must have a solution that isn’t the typical "get therapy" response, right?
-Addicted to Dick

To quote Blanche Deveraux when Dorothy claims Blanche is jealous because Dorothy has a date on a Saturday night an Blanche doesn't: "Saturday night? That's kid stuff. Get lucky on a Tuesday morning and then we'll talk."

Only 2 or 3 hookups a night means if you spread those guys out throughout the day (yes including Tuesday morning) you should be able to better balance your addiction with the rest of your life. It's called harm reduction, like smoking less cigarettes until you quit, rather than just failing to quit and giving up entirely.

Now if sex isn't actually pleasurable for you and you are acting from some other addictive place, then yes, talking to someone about it can help but don't approach it as "the typical get therapy" deal as you say. That tells me that on some level you'd be seeking someone who would shame you or fix you or otherwise do something to you. Rather than it being a space for you to gain awareness about what's going on. That includes a safe space to have feelings.

Plus maybe the therapist will be hot and he can cum in your mouth!

You know you were thinking it.

I have so many opening lines, like "I bet guys line up for your opening" or "I bet guys line up for your openings." The latter is for guys who have cute mouths and buttholes, rather than just cute of one. It's wonderful I have detailed, technical knowledge of male biology to understand the relevance of singular vs. plural.

Converting a peeping situation into an opening line is fraught with risk. It's not often the surreptitious pic snapper makes themself obvious. It's like being a spy with a t-shirt that says "I'm a spy." Although no actual spy would wear that shirt so it would throw people off.

MEN.com announces they are releasing their Star Wars parody this month. There are no further details at present, although this movie poster indicates one of the stars, playing Luke, will be Luke Adams. We're looking forward to seeing the rest of the cast. Stay tuned for scene releases here at GayDemon.