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I'm a 31 year old guy and I'm having trouble talking to my friends about my life. They're mainly all straight and they know I'm gay. I'm out of the closet. But every time they ask me about my private life, even so much as to see if I am dating someone, I get uncomfortable and change the subject. Why might I be struggling so much with talking to my friends about my life?
-Silent Treatment

31? And still using the phrase "out of the closet"? How retro gay chic. How 18th century. Anyhow, it's probably a combination of the following reasons:

My Friends Feet are excited to announce that they'll be featuring in an upcoming documentary, Tickled. The programme will be premiering at the prestigious Sundance Film Festival in January 2016. The "growing male tickling fetish world", which includes producers, directors and models alike is the focus of the documentary, and follows their many different encounters. More information for the documentary is available at TickledMovie.com.

• Yes, totally go out with this guy, but only if you are "a dude who understand how to have sex and have an argument." Here are some ideas for argument starters.
• Why the fuck do you live in Puyallup?
• You did understand me, right, because you speak profanity as one of your four languages? Bitch.
• What's it like to be "far more educated than both you or I want [you] to be"? Is that a tremendous burden? Does education ruin everything in our lives because you know so much there is no point in any communication or reading or listening or math or nutting? 
• Are you turned on by my misspelled double negative in the prior question? 
• What are you a doctor of?
• Sorry, I mean "Of what are you a doctor?" Rectums? Are you a rectum doctor? I mean a doctor of rectums? Man, you are hard to talk to. Unbearable, really.

I'm going to get some water then come up with more ways to argue with you as you are so raring to argue I figure the moment's delay will further rile you. Okay, I'm back. Here are some more.

I’m going to be alone this Christmas and New Year. I never have been before so not sure what I should do! Normally I’d have my apron on cooking for friends or family but that’s not possible this year. Suggest to me something I can do that isn’t sad or moronic.
-So So Solo

Well this won't reach you in time for Christmas, but let's assume you'll be alone next Christmas too. Hope for the best but plan for the worst, right? Or maybe it's whore for the best but plan for divorce? I really can't remember because I'm in the midst of a holiday party as I right this. I'm definitely not doing something sad or moronic.

The best advice is to volunteer at a shelter. Cook for people in need so you can still wear your Tom of Finland apron you love so much. I'm assuming that's your style but it's even money on that.

As the year draws to a close, it's time for MEN.com to ask who your favourite Top To Bottom star is? From Colby Jansen to Paddy O'Brian, Dato Foland to Topher DiMaggio, which top rocked your world when he bottomed on the MEN.com sub-site Top To Bottom? Sound off in the comments and let us know why!

I think I have a sex addiction. I am never satisfied and sometimes 2 or 3 hookups in the same night isn't enough. I need more all the time. I've found myself in saunas, clubs and cruising grounds; and spending hours and hours on Grindr It has started to affect my work and social life. You must have a solution that isn’t the typical "get therapy" response, right?
-Addicted to Dick

To quote Blanche Deveraux when Dorothy claims Blanche is jealous because Dorothy has a date on a Saturday night an Blanche doesn't: "Saturday night? That's kid stuff. Get lucky on a Tuesday morning and then we'll talk."

Only 2 or 3 hookups a night means if you spread those guys out throughout the day (yes including Tuesday morning) you should be able to better balance your addiction with the rest of your life. It's called harm reduction, like smoking less cigarettes until you quit, rather than just failing to quit and giving up entirely.

Now if sex isn't actually pleasurable for you and you are acting from some other addictive place, then yes, talking to someone about it can help but don't approach it as "the typical get therapy" deal as you say. That tells me that on some level you'd be seeking someone who would shame you or fix you or otherwise do something to you. Rather than it being a space for you to gain awareness about what's going on. That includes a safe space to have feelings.

Plus maybe the therapist will be hot and he can cum in your mouth!

You know you were thinking it.

I have so many opening lines, like "I bet guys line up for your opening" or "I bet guys line up for your openings." The latter is for guys who have cute mouths and buttholes, rather than just cute of one. It's wonderful I have detailed, technical knowledge of male biology to understand the relevance of singular vs. plural.

Converting a peeping situation into an opening line is fraught with risk. It's not often the surreptitious pic snapper makes themself obvious. It's like being a spy with a t-shirt that says "I'm a spy." Although no actual spy would wear that shirt so it would throw people off.

MEN.com announces they are releasing their Star Wars parody this month. There are no further details at present, although this movie poster indicates one of the stars, playing Luke, will be Luke Adams. We're looking forward to seeing the rest of the cast. Stay tuned for scene releases here at GayDemon.

I’m a bottom and I find it hard to stay erect while I’m getting fucked. I recently started playing with a guy regularly who is really keen on me being hard while he fucks me. He keeps mentioning, “Why aren’t you hard?” and doubting whether I’m into him, even though I love getting fucked like a bitch by him! I don’t want to take Viagra or anything like that. What’s your advice?
-Wet Noodle

What a charmer!

If you did take Viagra, you'd need to keep it a secret because he'd then claim any erection you had was due to Viagra and you couldn't prove otherwise. It's not like your penis has a blue Viagra section and a [insert your skin tone here] non-Viagra section. So strike that plan. Hmm, so what should you do?

My best mate and I have the exact same type of guy we're after. Going out pulling with him is a nightmare! We always end up arguing over the same guy. It's really starting to piss me off and I'm finding I don't want to go out with him as much as I used to. How can we hang out and pull without it turning into a bitchfest each time?
-What's His Is Mine

Clearly you're both going after rather flighty, indiscriminate types who see you as interchangeable. Maybe you're making time with a guy and his eye wanders to your friend or vice versa. Taken to its natural conclusions, some guy will pull his dick out of your mouth and put it in your friend instead. Leaving your mouth cockless. A cockless mouth is a tragic occurrence that afflicts millions of homosexuals every seven minutes. Let's hold a telethon for Cockless Mouth Syndrome right now. I'm sure we can get Celine Dion to perform. She's very charitable.

Well I wish they were all my buddies. We'd spend awesome time together, like they could do all their jock things, or sitting with legs spread things, or showering things and I could do all my watch their crotches things.

Actually that's just one thing. Me watching the guy's crotch. One long thing.

I’m uncut and my foreskin won’t pull back. Some sexual partners have noticed and said I should get cut. I don’t find it an issue function wise, but it does make me a little embarrassed when hooking up. I don’t particularly want to go through the pain of circumcision, so how should I handle it?
-Foreskin Fella

I'll assume the partners who didn't notice were too busy getting their dicks sucked while you jacked yours. It takes a very self-absorbed partner to not notice a key feature of your dick. So I suggest you seek totally self-absorbed  guys, only concerned with their own pleasure and bodies.

In short, sleep with straight guys. The non-homophobic kind so they don't "gay panic defense" you to death.

Since the beginning of October, we've watching three porn hunks vying to snag the next exclusive contract with MEN.com. Landon Mycles (previously Marcus Mojo), Diego Sans, and Alex Mecum fucked their way through six scenes, but in the end, it was Diego Sans who grabbed surfers by the balls. He's been signed to a new exclusive contract. Come inside and see his brand new scene.

How can I pick up guys older than me? I am a slim and smooth 21 year old and love daddies but they all seem to prefer men of their own kind and it seems impossible to find these kind of guys willing to date me, or even fuck me!
-Twinkle Twinkle Little Twink

Stop looking for guys in public toilets. They all probably think you're 17 year old jail bait. Look where daddy types live, like the waiting area of their brokerage at which they have their daddy millions or the line at Chipotle, waiting for their order of a burrito with a side of e coli. Because millionaire daddies need to be cheapskates sometimes to keep their millions. Also try grocery stores. Daddies eat food. With their daddy mouths. They are mysterious creatures.

After a year-long contract with Raging Stallion Studios, David Benjamin has defected to TitanMen. "Benjamin is the epitome of a TitanMan – mature, masculine, confident, handsome, amazing body and gay!" says Titan Media vice president Keith Webb.