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I’m just about to propose to my boyfriend somewhere that doesn’t allow gay marriage. I'm worried he’ll say no because of that alone, but I want him to know I want him to be my husband, when and if that ever happens. What would you do?
-Groom Without a Groom

What I would do is realize I'm not attracted to him in the long run and break up with him, because I'd made the wrong choice of guy in the first place and should have focused on being friends with him instead of pursuing anything romantic. Then I'd wallow in self-pity for five minutes, hours or years (depending), followed by brief forays into the dating scene and quick retreats into addictive behaviors like YouTube and pancakes.

Perceptions of Perfection is a study that shows there is no global ideal body. Part II of the study focuses on men. Graphic designers from different countries were given a base male image and asked to manipulate the photo to show their perception of the ideal man's body in that country.

Logically, if you'd been asked if you would think such a study would result in identical images (differences in graphic design notwithstanding), you would almost certainly say no. 

But seeing the differences side by side drives that point home.

I met a new buddy online and we are hanging out a lot, just doing stuff friends do. Things like going for coffee and maybe a few drinks, and going out for lunch together. Then when he’s not around he texts me really flirtatious messages. I think he’s cute, but if I took that as a green light to fool around with him, won’t that make being friends awkward?
-Friend Without Benefits

Him flirting with you is him flirting with you. It's not a green light to fool around with him in the future. It's not like he sends some texts and you have free rein to cum on his face. There are some steps in between.

So I hate to break it to you but you two are dating. And just because you haven't had sex yet doesn't mean it's purely platonic. I don't know what site or app you met on, but it almost doesn't matter. People can meet on Scruff and end up workout partners or going to the movies together or whatever. Like married.

In part one of MEN.com's new series Apocalypse, the world is nearing an end when a fight breaks out over one of the few remaining women on earth. Paddy O'Brian defeats Hector De Silva in the fight off, but instead of finishing him, he takes his ass and makes him his bitch instead, using that big uncut British dick! 

Naked Sword are excited to announce NSFW! No, not Not Safe For Work but Naked Sword Film Works. It's a new, independent film arm of Naked Sword producing and showcasing independent film directors with provocative and explicit content. Brontez Purnell’s 100 Boyfriends Mixtape will be the first title. "Mixtape is his brash, explicit rendering of boys, bullshit and bedrooms." 

I’m looking for somebody with a specific fetish. I’m really into smoking and wanking, I don’t necessarily want any physical sex, just go get off with a guy who likes smoking too. Where can I find a jerk-off smoking buddy or am I wasting my time?
-Cock Smoker

Wow, this is really going to test the limits of this being a judgment-free zone. Except if you look back at some of my other columns, you'll find I'm judgmental as hell. With love. Well, here goes.

Smoking is toxic, dangerous and expensive and can potentially shorten your time on earth meaning less masturbation time. Plus less money for important things like lube and porn.

I am not often in the audience of a wrestling match, as in never. Because the longest I'd last is 3 minutes because I'd be stroking and kicked out. Seriously kicked the fuck out by people who somehow would not appreciate my stroking to wrestlers. 

Though I wouldn't mind a job as the stroke police at events. Like I could monitor who is jacking off at presidential debates. And make them get out of their seat and move to the stage. Would definitely elevate the discourse.

I’m a gay guy with a bi boyfriend and he doesn’t always seem keen on sex with guys. When he does it has to be as if it’s “wrong” and “degrading”, but I love him and want to be with him. How can that fit in with my life and what I want or am I kidding myself?
-Gay Meets Bi

I thought it's bisexual folks to who get pinne with the "confused" stereotype. Seems like you're doing your best to counter that because you're the one who's confused.

He totally knows what he wants: sex play with an air of the forbidden. If he actually thought it was wrong, he'd be checking into some ex-gay conversion program (which totally wouldn't work of course). He'd actually be trying to beat the gay out of himself, going to some toupee convention at a Ramada Inn or wherever ex-gays hang out.

Except when they're not everywhere. Sometimes you're in a hunk desert. Isn't that awful? But reminds you of the importance of really looking hard when you do spot someone. Really appreciating it. And (here's the totally crazy, fucked up part), smiling and/or saying hello if at all possible.

Then something may end up happening beyond looking. I get that so much of our socializing is online, but nothing can replace 3D, in-person, for-real encounters. You can read someone's energy. Like maybe the guy looks amazing but strikes you as terrifying. So steer clear. But maybe he looks amazing and has amazing energy. Steer right to him.

I’m in a relationship with a guy who loves to play on cam. It’s not exactly cheating, since he’s not doing anything physical, but I do get jealous. Am I being ridiculous or is this something I should be trying to put a stop to?
-Out of the Spotlight

If by put a stop to, you mean realize it’s futile and ridiculous to try to change someone so you mean break up with him, then go for it. Because the guy you’re in a relationship with is into this, and is into telling you he’s into this. Sounds like he didn’t check out how you’d feel about it though. It’s just part of the package you get with him.

And by the way he is doing something physical. He’s physically touching himself, getting naked, talking or text chatting, and jacking off and/or ejaculating and/or inserting stuff in his stuff. That’s physical.

There are a lot of things you could be doing besides looking at this guy's dick. I mean, a total lot. And not just involving looking at other stuff. Stuff besides this guy's dick. But you should look at this guy's dick. Totally do. He wants you to. He wants the hotel hallway to. Plus you. But still there are other things you could be doing, such as:

I think I’m addicted to chem sex. I don’t seem to be able to get fucked or fuck unless I’m high. I’ve tried a few times with different guys and it just isn’t the same. I need to stop for health reasons but just can’t. The only thing I can see working is not having sex, but that’s going to be almost impossible. How can I win?
-Chemical Impulses

I think it's totally fine to have sex while in a lab coat. I know my chemistry teacher looked hot in his. Plus with his dress pants underneath, it was a whole situation of exciting hormonal business stirring afoot. Or those are the metaphors of my dreams. Actually I only took chemistry in high school and my teacher was a never-married Italian dykish lady. Just like I'll be someday! Minus the Italian part.

Oh, I just read the rest of your question. Sounds like you're addicted to tina. And I don't mean F-list actress Tina Yothers of Family Tiesfame and nothing else. I mean meth or whatever it's called. I don't take any nor am I a detox professional so asking me this question is officially your addiction talking because you know I can't help you.

Treasure Island Media releases the latest in the Legendary collection. Jerry Stearns is incredibly well-endowed and has some physical attributes that most men would envy too. This collection shows scene after scene of Jerry Stearns pounding ass, and showing the reaction of the men he fucks. If you haven't seen Stearns pound raw ass then you haven't lived yet!

I’m really into watching my boyfriend get fucked by other guys, but he doesn’t know I’m watching. That’s part of the fun for me, but I have a sense of guilt afterwards as I feel I am lying to him. I catch him out at home setting up hookups when he thinks I’m at work and I found a great spot to watch from. What should I do?
-The Ethical Peeper

Since he hasn't flat out asked you, "oh by the way, instead of being at work in the entire expected time frame, were you secretly still lurking at home in some hideway within our place, listening and watching me arrange surreptitious hookups with strangers in our bed then watching us fuck while you jacked off?" then you're not a liar, because you never answered that question with a no.

Back in August it was announced that you were returning to TitanMen. How is it to be back at one of the world’s most revered gay porn studios?

It feels great, I was in talks with TitanMen way before August but was keeping things under wrap until everything panned out. Feels good to be home again.

Can you talk to us a little bit about what you’ve filmed since returning to the studio, and what made you decide to go back?

Since returning back to TitanMen, you can see me in the release Icons, a neoprene fantasy themed movie...and a Classic Leatherman movie that will be off the charts. In talking with TitanMen, they made me excited again to be a porn star. I created a lot of classics over at TitanMen and that is where I first got my shot. When it was explained to Me, that they were redesigning the site, Rebranding themselves and wanted Me to be apart of that, I jumped at the opportunity. I just want to make good porn, something edgy/hot/dirty and just have fun making porn again.