Profile update: mid 2023. Historically . . .
The world changed the morning of 9/11/2001, and the world outside of Manhattan and Alexandria sat glued to their televisions in shocked horror. Before that it was 2000 when one of our noble destroyers was attacked, seventeen servicemembers' lives were senselessly lost, a weak commander in chief did nothing and invited the massive loss of American lives the following year. Before that it was 1994 and the bombing of the World Trade Center; the country's defence and intel as a whole failed, and again a weak president did nothing.
In 2020 it was a different enemy, from an aggressor whose intent was subsumed into the chaos of ineptitude. The world was the victim, not only the United States. We survived with scars, emotional and economic. We're Americans; we're the greatest nation ever to exist in the history of the Earth; and we're the greatest people, full of ourselves, but rightly so. We'll continue to grow. It was my pleasure to defend this country and my fellow citizens.
Yet I am, still, just your average, gay, retired Marine, now immersed in the business world and focused on being a good husband and always-learning dad to both our adopted college age son and to my husband’s early-30s doctor son and his doctor husband. I'm also the same slut I've always been . . . and, along with my husband, always will be. We're all complex; it's what we contribute to the world that matters, not the labels we acquire, choose or suffer.
I am blessed to have found a soul mate shortly after my retirement from the Corps at the beginning of 2012 after more than a quarter-century — at the ripe, old age of 45. Actually I thought I’d always be active duty and die with my boots on . . . until one day I had an epiphany and decided enough is enough. My husband is a rich attorney — no I didn't marry him because he's rich, in fact I very nearly refused to for that reason. He realized his lifelong aspiration to become a Federal Judge . . . and then decided to not be a judge any longer. In his case, with respect to that pursuit, he found that the having was not so rewarding as the wanting had promised. (I think Gene Roddenberry captured that sentiment in Star Trek TOS in an episode, "Amok Time" that aired when I was 8 mos old — "After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting." I've never wanted anything but the safety of my country and the good health of my family. Oh, and ass, of course! But my husband craved the judgeship and to follow in his dad's footsteps, those, probably, in equal doses. I suppose I can relate, as my late dad was a Marine before me. My husband’s a former Army Ranger, though he wasn’t a lifer as I thought I was before I abruptly retired from my commission. We're a great match, and he's given me a life I never dared dream of before he carefully reeled me in and engulfed me in his love.
We adopted my husband’s young teenaged nephew six years ago. I often think of these past years as my advanced dad training phase. Advanced because my husband came with a son in college, whom I’m proud to say is now a doctor, as is his husband as well. Our older son and soninlaw volunteered to devote their professional lives to COVID when the pandemic began. We are further blessed to have them healthy and continuing that pursuit of medicine.
We adopted our younger son out of horrific circumstances. We are the statistical anomalies — both of our “children” gay. Of my husband’s family of our sons’ generation 50% are gay. Apparently the gay gene runs strong in his family! Another blessing is that our younger son has all but completely shed the oppressive emotional scars of his life before a prominent joy in our lives. I’m a tough jarhead, and I’ve seen and been through a ton of shit; but take it from me — counseling and support are the keys to mental health and going it alone, toughing it out, are bullshit when there’s help to be had. Our younger son now is ensconced at one of the best universities in the world, a senior to be in the fall, playing varsity sports, academically successful. And he’s the sweetest man, who will contribute to the good of our world like his other father has and does. I envy them both.
This sounds a lot like The Brady Bunch, doesn’t it? I assure you — my husband’s and my life is far more Colt, Honcho, Sean Cody, Ragin Stallion, etc.! I fucked my way though every hot ass I could find until I found the best, fortunately attached to the best man I’ve ever met. And, amazingly, he lowered his standards and took me as his. We now manage to have our sexcapades together. Mmmmm!
I have been a prodigious diarist since my father died when I was 12. Initially the journals' sole purposes were for me to give outlet to that emotional devastation; but soon they became my outlet for everything I experienced, then became a compulsion to capture for my later enjoyment all the details of the good, the bad, the indifferent, and a mechanism to move things out of my conscious and to move on.
My writing is mostly retelling of my own life and events . . . and most importantly our sexploits. I tried some fiction — not great I admit! — along the way. Although I don’t have the time nor the inclination to write for external consumption these days, I continue to marvel at those who do, the fellow writers whom I'm honored to call fellows.
When I joined this wonderful site, I was inspired by the stories of others, not only to continue picking pieces of my own journey from my journals to write up in externally-consumable form, but also to push myself to develop and post that short-lived fiction. Again, the fiction I produced is to be avoided if quality creativity is what you crave! Having said that, though, I find that my fictional characters often have very tiny amounts of people I know, often my husband and myself, which are either inherent in or influence them. Perhaps that is my revelation via the magic of composition, as I discovered that about those purely fictional characters and circumstances as I reread past installments. That, my readers and friends, is a Marine's version of shithouse existential philosophy! (We blow shit up; we're not known for great thinking.)
We moved fulltime to our home in Hawaii from the East Coast at the onset of COVID. Best decision ever! Our parents, older sons (son and soninlaw) and best friend followed (though my husband's parents have since abandoned island life), so we have our own tribe here now and did through most of the pandemic. Again, we’re lucky men!
I'll close this epic profile update by giving some credit where it is due. Bjorn, our wonderful webmaster for GayDemon, is a saint, is a delightful correspondent, is HOT (oops, maybe I wasn't supposed to divulge I know that!) and deserves our thanks and support. And to Eric, who assists him (and possibly others) we all owe thanks for every click and every surge of blood to our cocks as we read! I want to continue to have this opportunity, so . . . seriously . . . support GayDemon and give Bjorn and co. your kudos — they’re deserved.
I'll sign this off by saying that I hope our troubled nation, the nation I love and fought for during nearly three decades as a proud jarhead, could really use our support as well. We need to move forward, to heal, to progress and also to preserve. If you're an American, as I am a very proud citizen, whatever your political affiliation, I hope that you can bring your positive energy to bear so that we all can come together for all our benefit instead of continuing to move apart.
26 May 2021 2764 readers
Tomorrow May 26 is our nine-year anniversary. It was about time that I manned-up and made an attempt to articulate my own experience on the day my husband known here as Billy C. came into my life and changed it immediately and irrevocably in a medium he enjoys. As a matured relationship ours brings with it some certain sharing and liberties including submitting a story on my husband's account.
Topics: Romance, Relationship, True Story
30 Mar 2020 10046 readers
A home plumbing incident forces us to have the plumber come out. Despite the best intentions, preparation for ample social distancing and post-repair disinfecting, the little heads prevail, and while our boys are occupied upstairs, we occupy our sexy slut plumber.
Topics: Slut, Military, Bareback, True Story, Plumber, Marine
6 Jun 2019 3990 readers
Just as my Judge husband was contemplating restitution for a Gay Code infraction, a hot CrossFit trainer offers himself up. Sweat and hard work led to restitution for the infraction. And delivered LOADS of fun.
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, Military, Oral & Blowjobs, Hookups & Dates, Marine
3 May 2019 16778 readers
My next post was to be a recent sexcapade, but a friend told us about a married man, and my husband and I enjoyed reading this from my journal. Here's a hot, young, married stud who caught my, er, eye . . .
Topics: Anal Sex, Straight Men, Fisting, Locker Room, Military, Marine
11 Apr 2019 3408 readers
My homecoming from my business trip to Tampa as my husband and I enjoy the pleasures of two of our favorite local bitchboys.
Topics: Anal Sex, Dildo, Sloppy Hole, Locker Room, Military, Marine
19 Mar 2019 2281 readers
My naughty husband has a surprise waiting for me upon my return from Tampa - two of our favorite local bitches. But I use our security system to watch the three of them while they prepare for my arrival . . .
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, Military, Marine
4 Mar 2019 5326 readers
My time in Tampa continued, and I found myself again enjoying the local offerings in the form of a very HOT Marine Uber driver.
Topics: Anal Sex, Handjob, Sloppy Hole, Locker Room, Military, Frotting, Travel, Marine
14 Feb 2019 10084 readers
Making the best of a business trip, a Marine turned businessman partakes of local offerings in the form of a hot little bitch gym manager and a very studly young powerbottom Marine. 1st of 3 parts.
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, Sloppy Hole, Locker Room, Military, Gym, Travel, Marine
17 Jan 2019 4676 readers
My husband’s boring day at home gets a boost from a studly security technician there to repair our system. And I watch on the security cams.
Topics: Anal Sex, Dildo, Hairy men, Military, Marine
10 Jul 2018 3420 readers
My husband and I joined a naked yoga group for men while we were on vacation in Hawaii. NO, that's NOT the set-up! The dirty bitch Irish airline pilot who propositioned us there IS . . . and what we three did.
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, Locker Room, Military, Sweat, Travel, Marine
11 Mar 2018 1328 readers
This is a a different point of view story to Kevgenesys' "Hunk 'Privately' Gets Off In A Hot Tub" and is a continuation of "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do" which I posted 3 years ago. Hope you enjoy!
Topics: Anal Sex, Voyeurism, Relationship
11 Feb 2018 14545 readers
There I was, reading GreenDot's HOT "Chemistry With Teacher" story with my husband, when I suddenly remembered the first time I SAW two studs engaged in mansex. Up to that point I'd seen my older brothers jacking off - often perving on my studjock oldest brother when he jacked in the shower in the bathroom we shared. I'd also wrestled around in our rooms with a couple of my schoolmates until we'd ...
Topics: Military, Teacher, High School, Marine
5 Feb 2018 5090 readers
While we were on our December trip to Hawaii, we again had some man on man fun with the slutty butler we'd originally met on our cruise to Alaska in 2016. The slut was still a slut, but instead of being a butler, he'd become a surf instructor. To say he was still a slut is like saying the Mona Lisa is a painting - Jaan is a very nasty, uber slutty bitch, who is almost as insatiable as we are.
Topics: Black Men, Anal Sex, CBT, Spanking, Slut, Military, Oral & Blowjobs, Marine
14 Jan 2018 2766 readers
Paradise. A marathon. Hot runners from all over the world. Endorphins rushing. And my husband the, Judge, and me, the Marine. Oh boy, was the sweaty, hot, Spanish marathon runner ripe for the picking! This is the first half of our fun . . .
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, Hairy men, Military, Marine
31 Jul 2017 3646 readers
This is from late May - the fifth anniversary of when my husband and I first hooked-up in 2012. We decided to gift ourselves the pleasures of a HOT physical therapist / sports trainer who had made it clear we could have him if we wanted him. We did . . . and we did, as you'll read all the dirty details here.
Topics: Anal Sex, Dildo, Big Dick, Military, Marine
13 Jun 2017 7261 readers
Two hospital stays for a stupid tick bite! But it wasn't all bad - the extra, unexpected "care" from a HOT bitch of a male nurse was . . . excellent.
Topics: Doctor, Military, Marine
3 Apr 2017 3515 readers
The LONG funeral events for a friend who'd died suddenly had us both jumpy from being involved with that most of the day Saturday. Once we left the funeral, all focus was on us enjoying each other and the life we have . . . in the best way we enjoy, which is with sweaty, aggressive mansex!
Topics: Anal Sex, Military, Celebrity, Oral & Blowjobs, Marine
24 Jan 2017 6434 readers
Sometimes I make the very pleasant mistake of reading my favorite fellow authors' GayDemon stories at work, when I have a few spare minutes (and can log into the site via the WiFi from the building across the street!). When I first started doing so, it was a bigger problem than now - I had to go down the hall from my office to the men's room to, uh . . . take care of things when, preDICKtably, ...
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, Military, Oral & Blowjobs, Master & Slave, Marine
5 Jan 2017 4236 readers
Continuing our Hawaii holiday vacation, my husband and I encounter a HOT surfer after a surf meet . . . And work out their pent-up excitement.
Topics: Anal Sex, College, Military, Breeding, Travel, Marine
3 Jan 2017 5439 readers
Alec andGregg are two years into a relationship while they're getting through college. We pick up the story we left off two years ago as Alec and Gregg are heading to Gregg's parents' home for the holidays. Fortunately they each know how to quell each other's nerves in the most effective way possible for two young, virile jocks whose nuts work overtime.
Topics: Anal Sex, College, Christmas
31 Dec 2016 6856 readers
Gregg and Alec hit a rough patch in their burgeoning relationship. Gregg, new to being gay, thinks he has it all planned out. Alec prefers to be part of the discussion, not given the decisions. Will they fuck it out - er, I mean, will they work it out?
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, College
30 Dec 2016 6099 readers
Our college boys have a reunion after Gregg returns from coming out to his parents. Gregg has a surprise for Alec . . .
Topics: Anal Sex, College
27 Dec 2016 8678 readers
As Gregg's pursuit of Alec heats up as he moves toward going home to come out to his high-profile uber-conservative parents.
Topics: Anal Sex, Big Dick, College, Coming Out, Oral & Blowjobs
26 Dec 2016 15637 readers
A college stud jock comes to terms with being gay.
Topics: College, Coming Out, Oral & Blowjobs
25 Dec 2016 7550 readers
Relaxing in paradise to avoid the Mid-Atlantic winter, my husband and I managed to spread some holiday cheer . . . by spreading the legs of a local college jock.
Topics: Anal Sex, Handjob, Sloppy Hole, College, Military, Travel, Marine
24 Dec 2016 2187 readers
Jimmy and Jesse, two years after meeting and falling in love over Christmas, have made a life for themselves and decide to share some of their miracles with others . . . in between fucking each other silly, of course!
Topics: Christmas
11 Nov 2016 15501 readers
A stiff neck. A perpetually horny Marine. A HOT physical therapist. You get the picture!
Topics: Big Dick, Military, Sportsmen, Marine
28 Oct 2016 7951 readers
An Marine's Unexpected Gift From His Attorney Husband.
Topics: Piss, Anal Sex, Dildo, Military, Face Fuck, Sweat, Marine, Throat Fucking
6 Sep 2016 2850 readers
This is a continuation of A Sea Cruise for the Marine and the Attorney, where I recounted catching our sexy South African stateroom butler rubbing our rank, sweat-soaked jock straps all over his face. After making him jack off and fill those ripe jocks with his very plentiful seed - and videoing it - he decided to up the stakes by sneaking into our suite and watching while my husband and I ...
Topics: Black Men, Anal Sex, DP, Group Sex, Voyeurism, Sloppy Hole, Locker Room, Military, Oral & Blowjobs, Marine
3 Sep 2016 11185 readers
My husband and I go on a cruise with some friends, and catch our hot stateroom butler in the act. A good time is had by all as a result.
Topics: Black Men, Anal Sex, Rimming, Big Dick, Masturbation, Military, Oral & Blowjobs, Marine