Posted 18 Oct 2015
I'm not into hookups anymore because I'm looking for Mr. Right. But where do I look? It seems everything and everybody is about no strings attached. I'm so frustrated. Help!
-Strings Please
What's it called when you're blue-balled but for a husband? Like you're aching for one and can't get release. The release one of those newfangled legal gay weddings would get you. Not to mention the presents.
It's not how you meet. It's that you meet. So it doesn't much matter where or under what circumstance, just that you and he become aware of each other and interact in some way. And get each other's number/email/Bat Signal.
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Image Credit: Men Over 30, Posted 17 Oct 2015
Do you remember Trey Turner? A few years ago starting in 2009 or so, he was everywhere in Pornland -- good-looking, ripped and hung studs are always in high demand. Turner was versatile, too, which made him all the more popular. Back then he was boyfriends with Jessie Colter, then in 2013, after four years of filming, Turner's Twitter feed went dark and he disappeared. But this month he's back and what a difference a couple of years makes! Come inside and check him out.
Posted 15 Oct 2015
Legendary gay porn icon Blue Blake has died
Not only known as a handsome, talented gay porn actor, but also as a director, producer, and author, Blue Blake has sadly passed away in London. The cause of his death is not yet known.
Blue Blake is British-porn and starred in dozens of gay porn films between 1993 and 2003, according to gay blogger Str8upGayPorn. After 2003, Blue Blake took a step behind the camera and ran his own studio, Big Blue Productions.
In 2008 Blue Blake published an autobiography, Out Of The Blue: Confessions Of An Unlikely Porn Star. The book was well received and gave an excellent insight into the actor/director's career. "This is a hilarious autobiographical romp that details the life of porn star, turned director/producer."
Blake has certainly earned his status as a gay porn legend and icon. His fans, co-stars and industry peers will undoubtedly miss him.
Posted 11 Oct 2015
After 2010 porn star Tommy Anders has left the gay porn world. Do you know what happened to him or if he has a new porn name? Also how big is too big in terms of dick size?
-Puzzled Porn and Dick Lover
You're right, Tommy retired from filming porn back in 2010. His new porn name is Donald Trump. And he's running for President. Actually, he's totally retired from porn (for now) and I hear he's pursuing higher education. Something the actual Donald Trump should consider.
I would suggest The Donald take Econ 101, plus several Women's Studies classes, African-American History, and Gay and Lesbian Studies. Tommy has him on that last one, if only based on his porn past.
Visit Helix Studios
Image Credit: Helix Studios, Posted 11 Oct 2015
Justin Owen: New Helix Studios exclusive!
Helix Studios is excited to present to us the handsome stud, actor and model, Justin Owen as the newest exclusive model at the studio. Justin Owen's already established name is set to find new heights with the award-winning studio in an effort to redefine what it takes to be a gay porn star.
Posted 10 Oct 2015
GayDemon re-interviews JP Dubois
Welcome back! So much has happened since we interviewed you last in 2011. Give us a quick rundown of what's new?
Well hello there! Thanks for having me back on GayDemon. Well the last 4 years have been a hell of a ride, Sam Barclay and I started a new company and kept it a secret for 2 years before the launch of UK Hot Jocks and it's been a further 2 years since then. Needless to say I've poured all of my energy, time, creativity and skills into making something unique, highly polished and a site that any porn star would be proud to be featured on. But making the move to director/producer/studio owner doesn't mean I've retired from being the humble star, oh no! If anything I've gotten better, bigger and more selective whom I shoot for, mostly due to my time commitments to Hot Jocks. I still love starring in porn and don't plan to stop!
Last time you were interviewed by us you were described as "up and coming". Well you got it up and came, many times. What has been the highlight of your porn career?
I've been extremely fortunate to shoot for some of the best directors and with some amazing men in my time in the industry, so to pick specific highlights is a tough one. I loved shooting in the Gay of Thrones series. The attention to detail, costumes and action were all mindblowingly impressive. From a business point of view I'd have to go with the launch of my website. Getting to that point was so nerve wracking and when launch day came I almost pulled the whole thing as the pressure was just too much! But after that point and seeing how well our content has been received I'm so glad we've done it.
Posted 4 Oct 2015
I use wheelchairs to get around and feel like I'm too much of a burden if I find my right guy. Am I paranoid?
-Not so freewheeling
I'm sure there are people who don't use a wheelchair who laze around not going any damn place. It's how you get around, but separate from that, it's about who you are and where you choose to go. You haven't met the guy in question yet and you're getting around fine independently, unless you run into any non-wheelchair accessible spot. But hell if that happens, you can file a complaint which is always fun. Maybe win a lawsuit then you can splurge on taking him out to a fancy restaurant. Just avoid anything with either Olive or Garden in the name.
Posted 27 Sep 2015
I'm tired of jerking off over the same gay porn. Everything seems to be the same, I can't find anything new or interesting and it seems to be the same models over and over. Am I becoming immune?
-Burned Out on Porn
For your jack-off engine, you're passing out of the automatic transmission phase into manual. Porn used to automatically take you there, but now you have work to do. You need to meet porn halfway. It doesn't have to be about the same porn that turned your on before. Yes, you're still attracted to guys. Yes you still like dick and all that. But there's more to porn than bodies.
Visit Next Door World
Image Credit: Next Door World, Posted 25 Sep 2015
Next Door World are proud to announce the release of their new six-part miniseries The Reunion with Scene 1, 'Playful Boyfriends'. The series focuses on a family reunion of fostered boys raised by a "man-loving, God-gearing" father. It encapsulates moments between foster brothers dealing with long-lost feelings that have been repressed, with the urges all surfacing and culminating in a 10-man orgy. Part 1 see arkie More, Paul Canon and Quentin reunited, and this first scene is released today on Next Door World.
Posted 20 Sep 2015
I'm scared I'm getting too close to my best mate. He's really hot and I've never thought about anything more than being just friends until he decided to start flirting a bit. I am scared it'll ruin stuff if I go with the flow. What do you think?
-BFF or BF
I think you're scared it'll ruin stuff if you go with the flow. I also think you're scared you're getting too close to your best mate. And that you find him to be really hot. Lot of scared. Lot of hot. Like Jason Statham is hot and also pretty scary. Such a horrible actor yet such a film star. That's scary.
The key is perceiving someone to be hot is subjective. I'm sure others find him hot, but the point is that you do. So he's a guy you find hot and enjoy spending time with. Sounds like dating material to me. It could turn into a husband thing if you're into that.
Visit Titan Men
Image Credit: Titan Men, Posted 16 Sep 2015
Porn newcomer Matthew Bosch joins the line-up of sexy men at Titan Men. The studio announced on September 14 that they signed Bosch to an exclusive contract and have already filmed his first scenes. The Boston resident is 29 years old, stands six feet tall, and weighs a hunky 185 pounds. With soap-opera star good looks and an eight-inch uncut cock, Bosch is bound to be a hit. Come inside for details on his first project with the studio.
Posted 13 Sep 2015
My boyfriend is away a lot on business so we don't have much of a physical relationship anymore. I am also a busy guy and don't have time to go cruising or spend many fruitless hours on hookup apps, so I hire rent boys. We don't have an open relationship, but for some reason I don't feel like I'm cheating if I am paying for the sex? Should I confess?
-Paying Customer
I strongly discourage you from confessing to the rent boys you hire that you have a boyfriend. Rent boys are more into monogamy and would lose respect for you. Also, you apparently don't have a kink where it turns you on to cheat otherwise you would have told the whores (and I use that as an honorific not a pejorative) about your guy.
Posted 10 Sep 2015
Well I wish these guys were my buddies. I might need to practice what I'd say. Maybe "Hey buddy, how's it going?" Or "Hey buddy, do you need me to clean your uniform for you? Just take it off right here and wait on my couch while I hand wash it with my mouth." Are those things buddies say to each other?
I might e terrible at pulling off the butch buddy thing. I think part of it is being able to coexist with the guy without overtly starting at his crotch for longer than 1.5 seconds. I definitely go into the 150+ seconds zone.
Posted 8 Sep 2015
Since retiring from porn, Francois Sagat has created his own clothing brand of underwear, swimwear and club wear. Now he's launched a calendar for 2016 and you can pre-order it at Kick Sagat today. As a special treat, all pre-ordered calendars will be autographed by Francois Sagat himself! The calendar follows a sci-fi theme and is photographed by Talented Exterface Studio. "Between unknown planet and poisonous nature, follow Francois in his sulphurous getaway to a phantasmagoric and sensual world".
Posted 6 Sep 2015
Last year I went on vacation and saw how awesome it was to be in a big city with so many gay guys. I live in a small town with the nearest person about 30 miles on Grindr. Do you reckon I should move?
-Confused About Moving
As they say, wherever you go, there you are. Meaning if you go to a gloryhole booth at a bathhouse, there you are. Or if you go to your couch and watch the horrible spectacle that is America's Got Talent, there you are.
Before you decide, you need to realize that just because the nearest person is 30 miles away on Grinder, there still may be gay guys closer to you than that. Maybe that guy lives really close to you but was busy making friends at a highway rest stop. Plus 30 miles isn't that far. The bigger issue is you've seen his profile and he's likely seen yours and neither of you have said hi. The difference in a big city is you'll see a lot more profiles, and some will say 47 feet away, and still neither you nor the guys will say hi. The city isn't going to do it for you. It's just a place, not an action.