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If your balls don't get wet when you sit on the toilet, you're not doing it right. If your balls get wet when you're standing at a urinal, you're doing it wrong.

Unless your balls get wet when you're standing at a urinal because you cruised the guy standing next to you and invited him to piss on you. Then all is dandy.

While these photos are some extreme examples, including the guy at bottom left whose balls are in a different zip code than his belly button, enjoying the sensation of ball stretching is pretty damn common.

Tugging on the sack as part of jacking off is ball stretching, no accessory required besides an opposable thumb and forefinger to circle around the base of the balls and exert the desired pull.

Johnny Hands has some mad flogging skills. The way he works this flogger against Dylan Hayes pretty little butt is no accidental matter, this stud has trained. And this is his second scene at Spank This and it's a must-see. Last week, after watching him beat Riley Finch's ass, I said that he ought to become the site's new official spanker. And I wasn't joking.

Young traveller Ivan Jedlik never thought his luggage would be searched. If he had, he might have thought twice about trying to smuggle three bottles of booze past customs. But airport security officer Tomas Berger is good at his job, he can often spot a nervous tourist with something to hide. The officer brings the passenger into his private officer for a thorough inspection.

I've watched a lot of spanking sessions on Spank This, but I've never seen one this brutal. What makes it more amazing is that it's Johnny Hands first time doling out a harsh spanking on the site. Riley Finch calls out for Johnny, then when he thinks his roommate isn't home, he goes into his bedroom. He finds a used pair of underwear tossed on the floor. He kneels and presses the briefs into his face. What happens next? You've got to come inside and see.

Poor them, saddled with loving participating in a sport that just happens to involve cheering crowds staring as they roll around on a mat in the tightest singlets and jockstraps. Or sometimes, as evidenced by prominent, angular bulges, no jockstraps or underwear at all.

Now wrestling is a genuine sport and sometimes people who may get friction or adrenaline based erections are feeling zero sexual arousal. This is especially true considering their fight mode is activated and that's pretty darn opposite from a relaxed sexual arousal mode. Though for some folks, they can occur at the same time (I'm talking to you wrestling fetishists).

It's an easy win for me though, as I have no problem if the guy is all riled up and strong and aggressive and I can be the weak one underneath getting tossed around and held down and clutched tight. Because I know it takes the most strength of all to be weak around someone.

It's one thing to break the rules, but challenging the house manager while getting shit for misbehaving is crossing a line. It's stupid, too. Mason even calls the halfway house's methods unorthodox. Such a big word for a guy who wasn't bright enough to keep himself out of jail. Now the supervisor is going to show Mason just how unorthodox his methods can get.

Do you see that piece of toast on Mason's chest? Yes, the house manager cums on it, and yes, Mason is forced to eat it. Is that unorthodox enough for you?

Hunky mall cop catches a young shoplifter with a stolen dildo in his knapsack.  Normally this opportunistic security guard just makes these miscreants suck his dick and he sends them on their way. But with a dildo in his hand, he can't resist using it on the perp's ass. Seeing how easily this lad takes the sex toy, the uniformed prick stuffs his own stiff dick up the boy's ass.

The Helix Mansion houses all the young models while they're in San Diego filming, it's a lot cheaper than putting them up in hotels. This month, Cameron Parks is the house manager and he has a strict set of rules. He walks into Julian Bell's room and discovers it's a pig sty with clothes and soda cans all over the place.

Cameron calls Julian into the room and gives him shit for not keeping his bedroom presentable. Julian smirks and seems to think this is a joke. Cameron pushes him over the bed and shows him there's a heavy-handed price to pay for not following the rules. And what makes this session extra hot is the giant mirror beside Julian's bed, it forces him to witness every painful smack and swat hitting his tender little butt.

In trying to find some examples of the invisible man fetish (in which someone imagines an invisible man ravaging them in a good way), I quickly realized that's better suited for video. And when I imagined what those low-budget videos may be like, I quickly realized that's better suited for high-budget video. So let's leave that one in the imagination. And to people so consumed by sexual guilt that they pretend their affair was with an invisible person/alien.

No disrespect meant to invisible aliens who come to Earth to fuck some of us. As long as it's consensual, that could be cool.

So I ran across this kink, specifically clothing that comes to life and goes sexual. Because clothing that comes to life and then starts doing interpretive dance or plays chess hasn't elevated to kink level yet apparently.

While these examples all include socks, that doesn't mean the kink must always be sock-related. There just seems to be an overlap, probably because feet can be expressive in how they're pointed and flexed (similar to hands), and can perform various sex acts while calling to mind an aggressive jock.

Don't try this at home. Do try it while at your job as a judge. But if you're doing the latter, expect to be fired and disbarred as happened to the infamous pumping judge. Don't worry about feeling for him as if he experienced some sex-negative backlash. He was creating a hostile work environment and was a shitty judge anyhow.

So actually do try this at home if you want, because it's consensual, and (as long as you get properly schooled by a good, informative sex toy seller and use all safety precautions and correct equipment), it should be generally fine to do. If you extend into saline or (shudder) silicone pumping, talking to your hopefully sex-positive doctor is exceptionally important, especially for the latter. 

And if you're feeling shy or ashamed about it, well that's a good gut check to tell you you're not quite as sexually liberated as being kinky may imply. They are sometimes mutually exclusive.

Gradual is key, and I imagine part of the fun, as is documenting the experience visually. Some folks may want a pleasant tug and swell, while others are going for specific length and thickness (and ball size and hang) goals, temporary or permanent.

Max Carter has been sitting at home all night stewing while his boyfriend Dylan Hayes was out with his friends. Dylan was supposed to be home by 8 p.m., but he saunters through the door at midnight. Why didn't he call? He just didn't think about it. Max bounds off the couch, drags his boyfriend over to the coffee table, and bends him over. After giving his ass a couple of swats Carter says, "You were probably out with that boy again." Dylan promises that he wasn't. But his punishment continues.

British actor Tom Hardy turns 41 today, September 14 and Mr. Man went digging in their archives to pull up a selection of their naked pics of Hardy. He's a member of the Mr. Man Hall of Fame of Nudity with 10 naked roles under his belt. Check them all out, but make sure you take a look at Colditz, which features both Hardy's cock and ass.

To quote '80s-'90s Latin freestyle group Exposé, "seasons change" and with colder weather, flip flops are less in public view. The flip flop fetishists among us will mourn. Or just focus on indoor viewing in locker rooms and college dorms. 

They may or may not actively live or be allowed in the college dorms but that wouldn't stop a hardcore fetishist. And what's a tip that you're hardcore about it? Look at the guy at the bottom right and if your eye at least equally travels between his flip flop covered feet and his astounding body, you've got a kink going on.

And it could be literal, as in seeing the feet in that exact state maybe picturing your tongue between the big and second toes, same as the flip flop positions itself by design.

Adam Hunt has just moved into Blake Mitchell's place and he's very quickly showing his bad roommate side. Blake arrives home to find Adam's clothes all over the couch and he's got his shoes on and one of his feet is perched up on the sofa. Blake rips into Adam, but all the blond can do is stammer ... ugh, ahhh, erhhh. Finally, Blake grabs him and bends Adam over the sofa and starts paddling his ass.