depraved Italian slut

I have an interest both in kink and in psychology. I am passionate about kink and psychology. I am a gay married guy but I am also curious about sex with women, if there’s psychological chemistry.

I write both for entertainment and for self-therapy.

I mostly use my stories as a way to safely explore my D/s desires and to promote healthy power exchange. It goes without saying that I reject notions of superiority or inferiority between human beings based on sexual roles… However I like flirting with the darkness… submission, humiliation, degradation, exposure, abduction, sadism… these are fantasies that I explore in my stories. I think that the submissive fantasies are ways to safely let go of ego/pride/control/responsibility and to navigate the need to express vulnerability and to be taken care of. At the same time the Dominant fantasies allow me to explore the thrill of power and even to release existential rage against injustice.

That being said I always aim to portray an ethical resolution that makes all characters grow by the end of the story.

My Doms or Dommes (at least the good ones) aren’t narcissistic men/women who project their insecurities on their subs, they ultimately love their subs and they wanna make them grow.

My subs are the characters that are most inspired by me and they aim to show that submission can be trust, self-acceptance, strenght and earned devotion. They too make the Dom/Dommes grow.

Some elements are drawn from my life but most are entirely fictional, of course.

There are also many vanilla elements: strong friendships and romantic love.

I wanted to show the versatility of the human mind and the fact that sometimes real love transcends kink. There are also fantasy elements which all carry a symbolic meaning.

There is always a deep critique of narcissism/psychopathy and abuse disguised as BDSM.

There are also political critiques and spiritual reflections which mix elements of Christianity and Buddhism (zen philosophy). Sometimes there are even elements of fan fiction adapted to my fantasy world.

I know that my stories challenge the norms of the genre because they disrupt stereotypes and they mix contrasting elements.

Well… that’s who I am :) I am a person who’s big on democracy, ethics and personal growth, so I wanted my stories to be aligned with my values. If my stories moved you, feel free to contact me via mail.

I am always open to feedback and to new friendships…

Enjoy the ride!