Increased Libido at 70

by Paul François

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At 60, Antoine’s lover put and end to their long-term relationship. They remained friends but the communication was more or less limited to a Dim Sum brunch once a month. To get some sexual gratification, Antoine started to drop by the gay sauna, which is not always the best cruising spot for seniors. His libido gradually decreased, to a point where he could go without sex for almost a year.

But at 70, there was a sudden revival. Antoine was constantly dreaming of the good old days. Financially stable, not to say well off, he contacted a Rent-Men agency and engaged in one-hour sexual encounters for $250. When he moved into a seniors’ residence in downtown Toronto, Canada, Antoine met a guy in his mid-sixties who introduced him to a free online dating service called Daddies & Sons. This was a dream come true since Antoine had always been attracted to younger guys.

The site gave the profile of thousands of men looking for sex partners, dates, long-term relationships or simply friends. Each had a username to the tune of Yourtoy2use, Curiouscarrot, Hornynow, Isucklongfatdick, Letsdothistoday, Sexaholic. Their slogans were usually quite direct: Anything possible; I am to please on Thursday afternoons; Ready and willing, never done this before; No games, just fun; Chubby needs a Daddy; Looking for much older.

Even when the Sexual Orientation line indicated Straight, the member was often looking for men or couples (2 men), no women. The profile photos were 50 to 60% pics of cocks and ass holes, some even included masturbating videos. Antoine was surprised to see the extremely large number of young guys under 45 looking for men in their 60's, 70's and even 80's.

He chose Gay1976 as his username – the year he came out –; for the slogan, Antoine hesitated between Oral Man-to-man Pleasure and Rimming King. He opted for the shorter one to be punchier and also to announce clearly his colors. As for the profile text, Antoine knew that it had to be well-crafted, not too long and enticing. After four drafts, he finally posted:

“Affectionate, romantic, bilingual (French-English) looking for a man with whom I can first discuss and cuddle, hug and kiss before heading to the bedroom. Leader in bed, I like to caress a crotch in a jockstrap (will lend you one), slap your buns in tight jeans, strip you naked, you’re your cock slowly and firmly, gradually lick and chew your balls, and slide my tongue in your ass to rim you with frenzy. You are between 25 and 45, a little submissive, you like dirty talk, you are cut or uncut (I’m cut). The best you can offer me is your rose bud to rim.”

Antoine’s profile picture showed him in a bulging red jockstrap, standing next to an enlarged poster of two guys in faded blue jeans and black leather chaps. In his gallery, he added two photos: one sitting in front of a meal with a glass of wine in his right hand, the other sitting on a sofa with two adorable dogs, Lilly and Bruno. On both pics, Antoine had a short white beard. No videos included.

The first month, Antoine received a dozen of messages, but almost half of them were from guys who only wanted to chat, so he removed the “dirty talk” phrase from his profile text. He was also proactive, leaving messages on the sites of White, Black and Asian guys, giving out freely his email address and even his phone number. That triggered a first encounter with a Caribbean guy not to well-endowed but very active in bed, followed by a married man (with two kids) who had never kissed a guy. Antoine was so excited to be the first one. His only regret was that these meetings never went beyond the one-night stand encounter… until Rick showed up.

At least ten emails were exchanged before Antoine accepted to meet Rick, 59. He never had sex with a man in his late 50s, but accepted to host Rick because the slim red-hair man enjoyed cuddling, kissing and being rimmed. What he had not foreseen was Rick’s fetish for cheeks, bearded ones driving him crazy.  Rick came on aggressively, squeezing Antoine’s cheeks forcefully and kissing them with frenzy. But no kiss on the lips. A hop in the bedroom was a relief and a chance for Antoine to suck and rim this strange partner who did not give him a hard on.

In the course of their sexual romp, between a full-blown rod at one end and a delicious ass hole at the other, Rick freely confided. He preferred to caress a soft cock rather than a hard dick, no sucking. He liked to be rimmed but did not want to reciprocate. He enjoyed exploding in a guy’s mouth. And, most of all, he was ready to become Antoine’s sex partner once a week.

After a light dinner – shrimp pasta salad and Henkell sparkling wine –, they amicably parted after three big smacks on both cheeks. Antoine spend the rest of the night evaluating the situation, writing down the pros and the cons of this possible relationship. It was a plus to suck and rim Rick who had the satisfaction of being rimmed and caressing a soft cock. Antoine could neither be sucked nor rimmed, and Rick could not explode in his partner’s mouth. Antoine had a steady partner and Rick could materialize his fetish of kissing bearded cheeks. The count was not perfectly equal, but Antoine told himself that, at 70, “perfection is not of this world” (Samuel Beckett).

by Paul François

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