Love 22 Vs 50: Chapter 4

Fourth day Narration

Sashaa’s Family shift to Bangalore

During February 2012, Sashaa family move to Bangalore because his son was searching job in Bangalore. Cherry mentioned this time that “He was so gutsy’ because Sashaa made Cherry to stay along with his family saying that he is used for Cherry’s food and his diabetes and BP are in control because of it. Then his wife and son allowed. Cherry didn’t like to stay but stayed since Sashaa forced him. Cherry stayed for a week together then moved because he felt uncomfortable which is obvious. Also, his wife took control over the kitchen and there is no use of further staying. That time his family don’t know about their sexual romantic relationship. That was the first separation. On the day Cherry shifted to new house, Sashaa dropped him in his car and after that they went on for a long drive.

After Cherry moved out, they kept meeting almost daily until 2014. During 2014 ending, Cherry’s family moved to Banaglore which ended their meeting at home. After that they started meeting at RMX ecospace during lunch time since both offices were close to each other. During that time Sashaa lost his contract job and daily meeting stopped. So, they meet over weekend but that did not satisfy their sexual requirements and hence they planned to go on trips.

Their trips

They went to Nandi hills, Mysore, Kolar, Karwar, Munnar, Chikmagalur, Kodaikanal, Munnar, etc etc. Cherry was mentioning about his memorable trip which is to Kodaikanal because that is the place where he didn’t have to cook. Otherwise they used to take service apartment and carry induction and other cooking items and even during trips. Outside food didn’t suits Sashaa and which will affect his mood and thereby reducing the performance in bed. In Kodaikanal induction didn’t work which made them to eat out. Even Cheery go to restaurant kitchen and direct how to cook so that food is very normal and not much spicy.

Lifestyle how hindrance

This lifestyle of Sashaa having home food without exception even for single day became a problem for Cherry. Even when they wanted to go out for dinner, Cherry will make something in home for Sashaa. Outside while Cherry enjoys full dinner, Sashaa eat something light only. If nothing is cooked at home for dinner, Cherry is not allowed to go out for dinner with his friends or colleagues. His colleagues used to tease Cherry what responsibilities you have taken at this age and you are working part time job as caretaker. Actually, their first trip was to Nandi hills for a day during 2009 when they were living together when Cherry was upset for not able to go out anywhere. So Sashaa took him to Nandi hills.

Sweet and irritating Guy

Sometime Cherry thought why he is so sweet and irritating at same time. One incident for that. On weekends, he used to drink more tea. Even if Cherry is reading, he insist for making tea. If Cherry refuse to make, he use to tell that “It is your duty to serve me and you cannot say no.

May be you can delay by few minutes and I have no problem in waiting but you can’t say no totally”. One such time Cherry got little upset and made tea and gave him the cup with unwillingness. Sashaa said, “give with love and your angry face reminds my wife”. Cherry didn’t response and went for continuing his study. Sashaa put on his pant and shirt, shut the main door and went out. Cherry was worrying whether he got angry or what and called him. He replied he was not angry just went out for some fresh air. After half an hour he came back with a flask. He told look baby you need not keep making tea every time. Make one time and store in this flask. Cherry was angry but felt love at the same time. He pushed Sashaa on the chair, sat on his lap and started raping his lips with love bites. Sashaa was shocked and that time he told “you can’t behave like this with me and dominate. I am the man. I can rape you and not vice versa”. But Cherry bite him more leaving love bite marks on his chin and neck because of which Sashaa couldn’t go to office next day and took leave.

Explore of relationship to family

It was on 2017 valentine’s day, they both caught by his son and daughter-in-law. In the evening on that day, Cherry and Sashaa went to Zaika Restaurant, Nagawara. It is calm restaurant and not much famous one also. Don’t know whether co-incidentally or otherwise, Sashaa’s son and daughter-in-law also came for dinner to the same restaurant. But it could not be co-incident and they may be spying on him by seeing his phone messages and tracked them there. Otherwise why they should come to the same restaurant, which is not famous and so far. Restaurant had wooden grill partition and they were sitting on the other side of the grill and watching for long. Sashaa was playing with Cherry’s fingers on table and talking romantically with shy and smiling.

After some time, his son and daughter in law came to them and spoken nicely like how come here and all other dramas. But they created a scene after he reached home. At this time Cherry mentioned “It ended there”. It seems to be very simple word but someone who is in really love can understand the pain behind it and forcefulness of the word.

At Sashaa’s home full drama happened. His wife threatened him of accusation, its adultery, followed by divorce and with alimony of 50 lacs plus the house in their native. His wife’s side are very strong people they could have brought him to road. She also threatened him that if he doesn’t move to Pune, she will file a case against him. Sashaa became emotionally down, helpless along with high on diabetes and BP. Then they had to back off amicably and make a deal that we will meet occasionally whenever possible. Cherry had to give up, because it is not possible for him to see Sashaa coming on streets after losing everything and convinced him for breakup. It is painful moments. After that Cherry never went to that Zaika restaurant. Then by December 2017, Sashaa family shifted to Pune.

Visit to Pune

During 2019, Cherry visited Pune for office work. That time they meet outside. They thought that they can go for one flop movie so that it won’t be crowd but even for that kachra bakwaas movie kalank... the theatre was house full. Sashaa had many relatives in Pune and they were afraid that no one should notice them. So, Cherry took Sashaa to rest room and made him wear sunglasses, Cherry’s jacket and changed his hairstyle so that it is falling in front, etc. But no romance was possible since damn crowded in movie. But due to less time, they couldn’t not book hotel room for enjoying sex. Just spent some time in malls and went for long drive and kissed on a lonely road. Cherry couldn’t not control emotion and cried remembering all the good times spent in Bangalore. That time Cherry asked 2 things to Sashaa.

1) Whether it is worth for Cherry to shift to Pune? But Sashaa refused because meeting won’t be that often and it could be hardly once a month. Further Cherry got parents and other responsibilities and he should concentrate on that.

2) Whether is it okay to find another partner in Bangalore for love and is it okay if he sleeps with someone? For that Sashaa looked at Cherry like a villain and said “it is so difficult question and I am possessive about you. But looking at the reality I think I should let you go because you are young our relationship is almost ending and even if we try to keep it alive over the years my sexual appetite will start decreasing.”

This exhibited their true love.

Quitting of Smoking

Then Sashaa said sorry for all the ego he showed to Cherry, especially during quitting of smoking project. Also, he told to forgive him for all the ego and domination showed to Cherry. Sashaa was grateful to Cherry that he handled him without leaving during that time and made to quit smoking forever. However, during Sashaa’s son’s marriage, his wife took the credit for that. Someone told to his wife that because of her love his husband quit smoking. But it is all because of Cherry and Sashaa’s hard efforts and dedication. It was not so smooth either to make him quit smoking, Sashaa have fought, hit by pushing and pulling over that 1 year of quit smoking project which was full of drama and fights. Even physical manhandling happened on this subject. Once Sashaa held a cigarette to smoke. But before he could light up, Cherry took and threw it out. Sashaa felt offended and attacked angrily. And said “how dare you could stop me and control me like this. Don’t try to dominate me. I am your husband and you have to obey me and not vice versa.” Sometimes he used to act like psycho, which was more entertainment and he made life so interesting. Once Cherry left Sashaa and didn’t return home, because he was not quitting smoking. That night Sashaa made many calls and during the morning he wrote, if you don’t come, “I will take sleeping pill and don’t leave me alone”. Sashaa can’t survive without Cherry’s love. Earlier Sashaa was cheating in the timetable given. But after this incidence Sashaa followed the timetable strictly and quit smoking in a year. That is a big victory to Cherry and his love. Below are the lines of Cherry which he mentioned while narrating this incidence, “Even if the smoker gets angry for controlling so much and starts hitting the partner, the partner has to remain calm and not leave the smoker saying he is violent”. Remembering of this project was seems to be relevant here.

Happy Continuation

After Pune’s visit, they never met again till now (year 2023) and hoping to meet soon. As Cherry himself told, their story is never ending, let us we stop here. Usually all say happy or sad ending, let us close as happy continuation since love will never end. How it is happy continuation after they got separated? They are just physically separated but not mentally or emotionally or by soul. Two place I felt it was very painful, where Cherry mentioned “that was the first separation” and second “it ended there”. But I think, it is not ended here because no one can stop them loving. Still they both loving each other more than when they stayed together. Let’s that love be keep on going and never ending.