A Real Gentle Man

by jjwilson3320

16 Sep 2018 6904 readers Score 7.9 (51 votes) PDF Mobi ePub Txt


He was older than I was.  He answered an ad I had on CL “Older for Older”.   I went to his house and we chatted.  Like me, he had a professional career.  I learned he was a retired banker.  He was 73 and I was 63.  He looked great for his age and had a really nice personality, smart and interesting.

We went upstairs to his bedroom and got undressed.  The first thing I noticed was his perfectly smooth swimmer's body.  He said he went to the gym to swim but really liked looking at all of the cocks in the locker room.  I commented on his great shape and I liked his cut cock.  Mine was 5.5 cut and shaved like his and he said he liked mine as well.  Since this was the first time we were together, he asked me what I liked.  I said I liked body contact, I like cock to cock, I like playing with a cock and mine played with.  I liked oral (but I do not take a load in my mouth) and I loved frottage.  I also said I was not into kissing or anal.  He said he did not like anal and does not do it at all.  I was surprised that he was a gay man and I thought it was a required activity.  He said not necessarily and he never wanted the risks of anal.

We got onto the bed and fondled each softly.  I got hard quickly and he complimented my firmness.  He was not as hard and apologized.  I said not to worry and we just held each other’s cock and played.  We talked about our former lives and what experiences we had.  He was a retired banker who had kept his homosexuality under wraps.  He knew in the 70’s thru the early 2000s it was a career ender.  It was never stated, but he said he could observe and hear the snide comments.

I asked if he was always gay.  His answer was interesting to me.  He said he dated in high school and college and had sex with girls and then women but it never really clicked long term.  He did not have any draw toward men, just unsuccessful with women.  In his 40’s he was happy to focus on his career and resolved he would be a bachelor.  As we were playing with each other’s penis I asked how he started with men.  He said it was an accident.  An acquaintance lived his sexual preferences “undercover” as he called it, came onto to him after a few drinks and he let it play out.  He did not like the kissing but he loved the cock play.  He told the guy he liked everything but the kissing and they developed a mutual masturbating relationship.  It expanded and he sucked his first cock and he loved it.  Since he was sure he wanted to keep it under wraps he eased away from his new friend as he was unsure of his ability to stay at a safe distance.

I shared with him my introduction.  The sheltered world I lived in during the 1950’s that was opened up with my time with Chipper, my neighbor.  I got to see a penis close up, like never before.  We inspected each other touched, rubbed and licked our private parts.  There was no embarrassment, only curiosity.  It was an important part of my life because when I first played with Jimmy it was an extension of my time with Chip and I was not afraid.  I knew this would be fun.

Jimmy was older (24) and had his license; I was younger (15) and walked to many places.  We knew each other from the area. He picked me up as I walked home and said he had some pics to share - this was before the internet and Penthouse. We went to a safe place he knew and he took out the pics. They were my first look at pussies and tits. I had seen my Mom but that did not count. I realized he had taken out his cock and was stroking slowly. He said, “It’s OK, take yours out and stroke it”. I did. He said, “that feels good doesn't it?” I agreed. Then, he put his hand on my cock and started stroking it. Wow, it was magic. I never had another adult hand on my cock but mine. He said "Do it to me" and I slowly put my hand on his cock.

Although he was older, our cocks were about the same - 5.5 inches and cut. He had more hair than me and his balls were a little larger than mine. I found that out when he put the pictures down and turned to me. We were facing each other and he took his free hand and cupped my balls. Again WOW!

One day when I was on my way to get together with Jimmy I was wondering if, in fact, I was gay. The facts were that I would spend the last three to four years playing with and sucking on another man's cock. I was also enjoying receiving the same. I have only played with him and thought that this activity was purely self-gratification with a twist.

Part of my answer to myself was “I have a girlfriend and I have another girl on the side and while I was not f****** them I was having plenty of mutual gratification with them at least two to three times a week. How can I be gay if I had girls that I liked, one that I loved and dreamed about licking their pussies and cumming on their tits? We would make out for hours and I would get hard just by making out with them. I thought that I couldn't possibly be gay if just kissing girls got me hard.

My play time with Jimmy included only jerking, humping and sucking. There was no kissing there was no hugging there was no emotional attachment it was purely a mutual benefit society of making each other c** once or twice every time we got together. I did not know at the time that people were bisexual but in fact looking back it was at that point that I realized I liked both girls and guys.  I was bisexual but had no knowledge of the word at that time.

I had always kept my secret playtime with Jimmy under the radar and therefore never had to explain to anyone how I could like sucking your cock and not be considered gay. The fact is someone could enjoy sucking your cock and have no emotional attachment to the rest of the person made sense to me. That is the way I felt and had no problem with it.

So after I shared my story I said I was more of a handjob, frottage and sometimes oral guy.  I said I liked body contact but was not a kisser.  I asked if that was too tame and he said fine – not to worry.  He made his way down to my cock and gave it a wonderful bath.  He started at my balls and went up to the tip and then took it into his mouth and swirled his tongue around the tip of my cock.  It was unbelievable.  I told him we need to go slow or I would cum.  He said he loved my smooth cock and balls and the fact that I was almost totally smooth like him.  He came up and we hugged with our cocks touching.  Not doing anything just calm and quiet.  I went down and repeated what he did to me and then I got on top of him and put our cocks together.  He had said he did not know what frottage was and I explained this was it.  He said the contact was amazing.  I lowered my body so we were hugging, chin in each other’s neck and slowly ground our cocks together.

I realized that he made it easy to hug, not in an emotional way but a sexual one.  Since we talked as we played it was very pleasant.  I was never as close to another guy when we played.   There was something about his nature that made it different.   He gripped my ass and ground our cock together and he said this was something he had been missing.  He liked to the warmth of our cocks together, he liked the closeness of the bodies and he got very excited.

I got off so as not to cum and he went down on me and started to suck in earnest.  He said he loved my smooth, shaved balls and said my cock was the perfect size for his mouth.  I told him I was close and he proceeded to suck me dry.  After I regained my strength I went down on him and proceeded to suck him slowly.  I enjoyed his smooth balls and cock and I asked him not to cum in my mouth.  He said he could not cum and not to worry he had all of the enjoyment sucking me off.

He got 2 hot washcloths and we cleaned up and got dressed.  We went downstairs and talked some more.  I said I enjoyed my time and he said he would love to do it again.  Call as he is free most days.

I called him about 10 days later.  I had been traveling and this was the first time I had.  He said he was glad I called and to come over at 11.00 AM.  I did and we immediately went upstairs and got undressed.  We lay in bed fondling each other and got up to date with each other.  I learned had a full-time married lover but only saw him on the weekends in another town.  Our time was special because he enjoyed my calm, easy nature.  He liked that I did not cum and rush off.  I said he was the second gay man I played with and actually found it quite enjoyable and less rushed than another married man.

This time I wanted to get him excited enough to cum and we played and talked for an hour.  We got into 69 and enjoyed it for a while and then I faced him, mounted him and took some of the lube he had near his bed a got our cocks nice and slippery.  I went very slowly and could feel his cock get as hard as I had ever felt it.  I was hard too.  I told him I was close and he said he was too.  He grabbed my ass cheeks and guided the direction and the pressure so we were rubbing successfully.  I told him I was going to cum and he said he was too.  The feeling of hot cum between us was fantastic.  He said that was the hottest thing he had ever done.  I rolled off him and we looked at the ceiling and replayed this wonderful event.

I was lucky enough to have a repeat of that day every three weeks.  We would sit, talk and then walk upstairs and get undressed and slide onto his bed.  He had a new routine.  He knew I would cum twice and he made sure that near the beginning he would suck me off to completion.  He said he loved my cock because it was beautiful.  I did not know how to respond so I didn’t.  After a rest, we would lie and talk, play, get into 69 and assorted other positions and finally, we would lube up and finish off cumming on each other’s cock.  We would change who was on the top or bottom but that was always the finale.  He said he introduced his friend to it but his cock was shorter and heavier so not as much contact as possible.

We would enjoy each other for about 9-months.  At our last meeting, he said he was moving to the coast of NC where he had property.  He also found a full-time guy and I wished him luck.  We hugged goodbye. I really do miss him.  He was smart, interesting, really exciting to be with and a real gentle man.

by jjwilson3320

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