Kink Spotlight: Guys Forced to STFU

Many men are basically given a personal microphone in the world, their words elevated above the voices of others, even if what they have to say is stupid shit. So while on an individual level, maybe the guy involved in the gag scene is not personally responsible for mansplaining the universe, it's still a bonus to get a guy to shut the fuck up on occasion.

And if that includes him tied up and showcases his desperate expressions and muscles straining against binding, that's just plain neat.

Remember any sort of play that involves blocking the nose or mouth or putting someone in a challenging position requires proper safety precautions and training. Definitely more training is needed than if you're going to go out and, in the course of a robbery, gag a bank vice president, tellers, security guards, and customers.

Though even then you probably don't want to commit an inadvertently violent crime so training is advised. Strike that, not robbing the bank is advised. Leave robbing banks to the professionals, the CEOs of the banks who rob their own customers.

Now my misplaced anger may seem just that, but in fact calls to mind that exploring kinks is a way to make sense of the world around you, taking on personas and roles that are normally inaccessible to you. So if you were that kid in the locker room who got bullied by the jocks, then now is the time for your well thought out, safe, sane and consensual revenge against a sex partner who is dressed like a jock. No actual athleticism required.

Gagging someone doesn't tend to happen as much when bondage isn't concurrent, as it can break the illusion if a person is clearly free and able to remove their gag but doesn't. Except that gets into a deeper mental play in which bondage can be verbal. Someone can be ordered to not talk, ordered to press their own wrists together as if bound, and, ironically, ordered to not gag when a giant cock is thrust into their mouth.

Though that last order requires some training to comply with. Some very rewarding training that explores the different meanings of gag.

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