What is fingering in gay porn?
What is fingering?
The sexual act of inserting a finger, or multiple fingers into the rectum, to add stimulation, to aid in self masturbation.
Definition
To use one's finger to probe the prostrate gland to help achieve an orgasm, or to prepare the anus for penetration by a dildo or penis. A form of anal stimulation, using one or more fingers, also to aid in lubricating the inner rectal lining, in preparation for anal sex.
A more "extreme" form of fingering is fisting, where the entire hand is inserted.
About
Self Masturbation - With one hand, a finger or two is inserted into a person's own anus, while at the same time, stroking their penis. The finger is moved inwards, to stroke the prostrate gland, or around it, to aid in the orgasm and ejaculation.
While some enjoy using a dildo while jerking off, it usually begins with some fingering to help loosen up the muscles, and to make the penetration less painful. It also is a way to insure that proper lubrication of the anus is achieved, prior to the use of any sexual toy or aid.
Note - If using a sex toy, make sure to use a lubricant that is suitable, as well as insure that any lubricant applied internally, is removed afterwards, to avoid possible infection or bacterial growth.
Some prefer to engage in fingering, then when getting close, to stop the anal play, to either prevent ejaculation, or to rapidly bring their ejaculation process to a climax.
Usually, the position for such self masturbation is done in a standing position, or where they are leaning forward, head flat on a surface, their buttocks upraised, their genitals hanging below within easy reach. The finger is inserted and worked within, usually in a simulated manner to intercourse, while the other hand strokes the erect shaft, grabs the balls, and so on.
It can also be done while squatting on one's haunches, or with the legs pushed back, resting on the knees and lower legs.
The positions used are an individual choice, and are varied to one's particular tastes.
Foreplay - Prior to anal intercourse, or for using anal sex toys such as Anal Beads, Dildos, the insertion of the finger can help to stretch the muscles.
In addition, it does stimulate the prostrate, as well as relaxing the person receiving the penetration. It gets their body used to the feeling, that can be gradually increased, by the use of more than one finger.
It is also a more enjoyable method of adding lubrication to the inside, further relaxing the person, prior to penetration of a penis, or sex toy.
Fingering can also be a prelude to more extreme anal insertions, such as fisting. It is the gradual insertion of fingers, allowing the receiver to get used to the fullness, until eventually the entire hand is inserted.
Care should be taken, that fingering can also stimulate a bowel movement. It is recommended that the receiver of any anal stimulation, avail themselves of an enema prior to their sexual encounters. This will avoid the embarrassment of having a bowel movement, unless of course the parties involved are into Scat.
Practice (Associated Acts): Fingering is generally considered to be 'safe sex'. However, like anything, certain care should be maintained to insure that there is no needless risk of injury.
Properly trimmed nails is essential to avoid the risk of any tearing. No sharp edges, and nails should be filed to make sure. In addition, if there are any open sores or wounds on the fingers, hands, wearing of a glove or form of protection is recommended.
Usually a surgical glove is the most often used, however there are 'finger cots', that just cover the finger. These are not considered ideal, as they can slip off during extreme motion, remaining lodging inside the rectum.
Noteworthy: Forced penetration with a finger is considered sexual abuse in many countries, and all of the States in the USA. Injury caused by such penetration in the USA is classed as a felony assault.
Shocker is a hand gesture, usually to signify one's desire for fingering or to finger. Though it is primarily a heterosexual sign, it can be interpreted for gay use, though not common.
The gesture has the thumb hidden, the finger next to the pinky also hidden, thus displaying only the pinky and other two fingers. For non gays, it refers to the fingering of the vagina and the anus simultaneously.
Related Terms
See also fisting.