What is gay kinky sex?
What is kinky?
Sex that is considered not average, that has some added activities included that make it more wild, more naughty.
Definition
The act of engaging in sexual practices that borderline on fetishism, in which added sexual acts are incorporated along with the more vanilla type of sex, one is used to, to either spice up the sex life, or to add some added variety to it.
Sex that is out of the ordinary.
In most everyday use, it refers to a sexual craving for things abnormal, more dangerous, less accepted by society, as being normal. Can be considered a slang term for 'fetish'.
History
As old as sex itself.
A nautical term in 1678, meaning a twist of rope.
In writing by Thomas Jefferson in 1803 was associated with the meaning, 'odd notion, mental twist' and only was first recorded as 'sexual perversion' in 1959.
Prior to that, it was more used to refer to eccentric.
About
There is no set practice, as what is considered normal sexual behavior today, maybe considered abnormal years ago, or years from now.
Generally, in today's standards, Being Kinky can generally can mean bondage being incorporated into the sexual activity, punishment as well, or even a more involved sexual position.
For some, Kinky, can be nothing more than simply swallowing the cum, though that is pretty tame stuff. It can be experimenting with other forms of sexual arousal, such as being urinated on.
The idea of Kink is simply to be experimenting, out of an overpowering desire, to experience sexual pleasures from other more safe, normal routine practices. The scope of one's kinky feelings, can be mild to extreme from where it can be foot worship, such as licking dirty toes and/or feet, to being completely bound, and punished.
Being involved in group sex could be considered Kink, though those in the BDSM community might not quite agree. However, Orgies are not considered 'normal sexual behavior' in today's society, yet was quite popular during earlier times, such as the Roman Era.
Practice (Associated Acts): Kink is usually associated with BDSM, which many consider abnormal behavior. However others consider it simply a more practical sexual experience, that incorporates new positions, matters of control, and pain as well.
As it is today, Kink or Kinky refers more to one's desire to participate and enjoy alternative sexual pleasures, through bondage, sadomasochism, and domination/submission sex.
Noteworthy: A popular adult show, titled KINK, was created to highlight the abnormal sexual practices of many adults. It was also created to bridge gaps between what was perceived to be abnormal, to what is accepted sexual practices.
Kink can refer to simply sex that is currently not traditional, but more exotic in application.
The Internet has helped to introduce other sexual practices to the world, as well as to connect those who prefer some kink to their sex.
It has also made some alternative sexual practices become more acceptable, as well as even making them become almost traditional or accepted.
Related Terms
It can also refer to the general acceptance of things different, as it applies to sex. That meaning that a kinky person will be more understanding of someone else's unusual desires, or tastes.