tar baby
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tar baby | One who defecates on the other, during anal intercourse.
Meaning
In more polite circles, refers to a chain smoker.
Also refers to a dummy, made from tar, in a children's popular story book by Joe Harris. (Mr Rabbit and Mr Fox)
In a derogatory sense, referred to a baby born of African American parentage.
Considered to be a bigoted term, popular during the 1950's and earlier.
Highly inflammatory when used in that connotation.