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Seems we all live a hectic lifestyle, just trying to make ends meet, but are we sacrificing too much for that buck? I mean back in the day, when I was young and had more days ahead of me than behind me, when we talked about sex, it was about taking the night to get naked, to get involved with our partner.
Even for those casual affairs, it was generally not like it seems it is, today. Then you would still take pleasure in watching or helping, the other person get naked. They in turn, enjoyed helping you unbuckle the belt, and undo the pants. If not, well, they were usually watching your every movement, and you could see the excitement building.
Course there were one or two where you could see the boredom too, but that was rare, and yet today more and more people talk about the two minute drill, like they were playing football or something. I mean you hear it a lot these days, about well the commercial came on, so we fucked, finishing just in time to see the rest of the show.
Now I don't know, are commercial breaks taking longer, or are we taking less time for sex?
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Published on 11 Nov 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
No, not me, though I bet many may think so. I just don't understand the hatred there is out there for Gays & Lesbians. I really don't get Hate, actually. Oh I know I dislike certain people, ideas, concepts, but Hate? No I don't think I really can hate.
Yet so many seem to do just that, especially when it comes to Homosexuality. A well noted Author was to speak at a school district, and parents objected, because he was Gay, was going to talk about how to survive bullying if you are Gay, and how to cope with it.
Now these parents have a right to object, they can pull their kids from attending, but it isn't that they objected to it, it is how so many have responded to the story that is, well sad. How so many adults claim that my sexual orientation is, well, a mental disorder at best.
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Published on 30 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
I wonder at times, why does so much porn, accentuate the pain aspect of sex? Is pain really a natural part of sex, or has the industry exaggerated it so that we assume it is? I mean there is an entire culture in Porn, dedicated to pain, either the inflicting of it, or the taking of it.
You know I kind of wonder if somehow, religion isn't partially to blame for the way people feel guilty about having sex, and actually enjoying it. As a result many look for the pain aspect of it, to sort of make it seem okay. Like somehow, it is a part of the act that allows them to accept the pleasure that sex gives them.
Now, that may sound weird, but then again, in many religious circles, it does seem logical, that pain is part of showing one's dedication, one's absolute commitment to their faith. I mean history is ripe with supposed episodes of where great heroes endured a lot of pain, to reach grace. Is that we are trying for when we like our butts whacked hard, while taking a dick up it?
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Published on 30 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
I wonder at times, are all these super mega sites really a bargain, or is it that they make you think they are?
Both the boyfriend & I enjoy twinks, that's our particular flavor so when we go shopping for some sites to join, that is what we seek out. Now there are all kinds of Mega Sites, you know, that offer up thousands & thousands of sexy pictures, with almost as many Videos as well.
Then there is the obligatory 'bonus sites' included with everyone's membership, along with 'countless sexy feeds' that are guaranteed to give you what you are looking for. I mean the sales hype is really good for some of these sites, sort of like the AEN's that promise you access to thousands of sites for one low yearly fee.
Course, the issue for me is, are they telling the truth? Are there really thousands of pictures & videos in the site I am wanting to join, or is that in total? And there comes the rub, at least for wifey and me. The figures they quote very rarely are for that one site, but for everything combined.
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Published on 26 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
Doesn't it just pisses you off? All the ads these days that get tossed in, between the sites you visit? I am a news junkie, and I tell you, the pages keep taking longer and longer to load, not because there is lots of news but because of all the blasted ads tossed in.
Whether it is the actual page, or through the RSS feeds that are all the rage, there is more ads than context. And you know, Porn isn't really any better. Oh sure, some places are far more judicious of the number of ads put in the face of the visitor, but today they seem to just be like rabbits. One minute there is two, turn your head & cough, and suddenly there are a dozen or more rabbits watching.
I am not anti marketing, or anti advertising. I fully understand that it is the advertising that lets me read the news items, that lets me get a wider perspective from the reporting and all that, but when the 'adverts' prevent that, well are they really interested in the news?
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Published on 20 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
Have you ever looked at the various search engines, and when searching for your site, to sort of you know, get off over, notice just how many sites are being shown as being relevant to your search?
For example, 'gay sex' will show 22 Million pages on the Internet that have something to do with those words. Like if only there really were 22 million of us, man would that be an interesting voter block, don't you think? Now how about if you like your men hairy?
Suddenly you get to choose from about a half million pages. Now I don't know, but what, 21 and a half million of those gay sex pages are just about smooth bodied guys? I mean come on, surely there are a lot more than that, but hey, the Search Engines spend a bundle on making sure they only return the right pages to your questions, right?
I guess it is like going through the yellow pages, only there are a lot more pages in an Internet Search than in the old yellow pages books. Point is, do they or the site owners even know what they are selling?
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Published on 16 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
Now I really wonder, does it make a damn bit of difference to you what a site calls itself? Does it help you identify the type of male you want to see? For example, I prefer to look at the younger type guys, the eighteen to twenty two variety, and yet let's be honest here. Can you really tell if the male model is twenty two or twenty four? Does he really look eighteen, and if he does, are you sure?
If you post a picture of a porn star from back in the seventies, and look at his hair, at his body tone, can you tell if he's nineteen or thirty?
Then there is the whole man stuff. If you refer to a site which has older models, that are over twenty five, you can't call them guys, but have to refer to them as men, because they aren't kids. Well when did a guy become a kid? Guy is just a generic term for male, so what's the big deal? Okay, I suppose if it was a site with naked women, I'd be pissed, but not if it's a male site.
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Published on 11 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | 1 Comment
Okay, if you are a size queen, then yeah, bigger is indeed better, but this isn't about your penis size or love of a big long thick dick. It is how we all seem to think that because something is 'bigger' it is somehow better, like Google for example.
When Google started out, it had a simple goal. To list all of the web pages floating around out there, and to make it easier for us ordinary folks to find the pages we wanted, with the minimum of fuss. Now that sounds good, would be a real treat too, except something got lost in the drive to be the biggest search engine out there.
Today Google has the Search Engine market cornered, but they also have YouTube, their own web browser, Google Chrome, and a whole host of other things, like Google Ads. There are Google Groups, and even their Picassa picture sharing program and organizer. Google Desktop to supposedly make your searching for stuff on your computer easier, but it is always busy sending info to Google, to better help serve you.
Just what is it that they are sending? Do you really know? I mean they say it is nothing private, but then why is the Government so interested in grabbing a copy of their Database? Think about that for a few seconds.
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Published on 09 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
I guess I am just weird, because I get very aroused when the other half is sucking on my dick. I really don't need to get me one of those fleshlights or whatever they are called. Certainly don't feel the need to get me a penis pump or buy one of those expensive penis growth pills either, as the other half is quite satisfied with the size of my winky.
And now there is the posivac, or such. I am serious, its running ads on television, and while I still haven't a clue as to what it is, they even have an offer, that I am certain is from one of those scooters for people who have trouble walking. You know, if you are approved, and turned down by Medicare or Medicaid, they'll give it to you for free, or nearly free because your insurance will pay most of the cost?
So it seems like I can now buy one of these vacuum type things, for next to nothing, because my insurance will pay for most of it, but first I need to get my Doctor to agree. Uh huh, I can see and hear that conversation now.
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Published on 07 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | 1 Comment
Okay, someone explain to me the fascination with huge dicks? I mean they hurt your jaw, if you suck em, and let's be honest, not many can deep throat a nine inch dick let alone an eleven or twelve inch monster dick.
Then there is the whole butt fucking to take into account. I mean sure, the asshole can stretch, but come one, those big dicks are sometimes thicker than the length of the one's you take up your ass. Now that is what I call being stretched, and that hurts too. I mean the asshole isn't made of pliable rubber or stretchable plastic; it is skin and muscle tissue.
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Published on 04 Oct 2008 in Updates and News | Comments
