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A bit of everything that is gay! Gaydemon's somewhat random and eclectic blog posts with anything from gay news, porn gossip to Editorial articles and features.
Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men
We've all seen it in porn and many of us have heard of them in our lives - straight guys who have sex with other guys. A lot of people don't believe those guys are straight, and still others believe that guys may go gay for pay but a guy who fucks or sucks guys in their lives outside porn can't be straight. Well, author Joe Kort has done a lot of research on this very subject, and you can read about it in his blog titled Straight Men Who Have Sex with Other Men (SMSM). And whether you believe him, don't believe him or just aren't sure, it's an interesting read whether you're dating a married man who claims to be straight or just wonder about those guys in the "straight guy" porn sites. You can read the article by clicking here.
Erotic Art - Brett Mycles!
This is artist Rob Bartel's tribute to Brett Mycles, who was one of the hottest and most beautiful muscle men to appear on the scene ever, and was one of my personal favorites. Brett was not only a successful fitness model but he was also a featured model for International Male. He also appeared in gay porn mags and videos and worked as a personal trainer. Rob has captured him perfectly, showing not only Brett's good looks but his tremendous sexual impact. You can read more about this piece and Rob's other art at The Art of Rob Bartell or buy a copy of his fine art prints here on Ebay.
Playgirl Announces Their Mardi Gras Party
Want to get naked with some of the men of Playgirl? Well, if you're planning to be at this year's Mardi Gras, it cam happen. On Sunday, February 22nd, Playgirl will be taking over New Orleans Mardi Gras and throwing an event at the legendary Country Club on Louisa Street in the Bywater. From 3-8pm this clothing optional pool party will have Playgirl models Lucky Daniels, and not yet published Playgirl stud (and ex-Israeli army soldier) Shay. They'll be driving down from NYC in Playgirl's "Shaggin' Wagon" for this event. The Country Club is at 634 Louisa Street. Jacuzzi and a full bar will be available. This is a great opportunity to get naked with more Mardi Gras partiers and to meet these hot Playgirl hunks!
or read gaydemon's review of Playgirl
Gaydemon Sites of the Week
Every week, hundreds of sites are submitted to the Gaydemon directory. Some just don't make the grade, some are okay and some either have very hot content or something unusual to offer. We keep our eyes open for the best and most interesting sites so we can share them with you in case you missed them.
This week we added a couple of very interesting sites to Gaydemon - each stands out in their own way. The first is Straight Hell, and it's one of the hardest BDSM sites I've seen. The focus is on dominant UK men finding straight guys, making them helpless and giving them some serious punishment before fucking their virgin assholes. This site isn't for everyone, but if you're into bondage and sadism, or want to see the "tricked straight guy" theme taken all the way, I'd definitely recommend this one.
Next is a site that is completely unique in my experience - and believe me, I've seen a lot of male and gay porn sites!
2009's First Best of Gaydemon
We're back with the first "best of Gaydemon" for 2009! We added some very hot stuff in the last week, so picking the best wasn't easy, but we started out with some gay fetish sites that are sure to keep you busy. Our favorite was Ursophile Leather. This is a truly awesome free site for leather bears and those who love them. It includes the entire hanky code, free leather bear pics, some interesting reading plus a links page that includes links to all sorts of leather community events and sites.
Ready for more fetish? Here's a blog with a focus on all sorts of fetishes called - appropriately - Gay Fetish on the Net. This site lists a variety of fetish sites and also includes pics and video clips. Masters and Slaves offers visitors a collection of 12 video clips showing BDSM dungeon action. If you prefer your slaves bound, gagged, punished and masturbated, check this one out.
Happy New Year from Gaydemon
Everyone at Gaydemon - the reviewers, writers, those who find new sites, work with the graphics and Gaydemon himself - would like to take this opportunity to say thanks. This site started out as a way to share favorite gay porn sites, and even though the site has grown so much in almost ten years, that's still what it's all about. Thanks to those who leave comments, who email to suggest new sites or to let us know about any issues, and thanks to all of you who make the site what it is by reading the reviews and visiting the directory.
Happy 2009 to all of you from all of us at Gaydemon!
The Best of Gaydemon for 2008
Hi, fellow porn-lovers! It's the last week in 2008, so I thought instead of our usual weekly update, I'd also give you some of the highlights of the best new sites listed at Gaydemon for 2008. For starters, although it's not a site, the Gaydemon blogs increased the size of our blog pics and added 2 video blogs per week, and I know regulars here were happy about that! Now let's get to some of the best of 2008!
BigKugels Vintage Erotica & Nude Photography is one of the Gaydemon reader favorite sites of the year. It's not only one of the best vintage gay sites around but it's free AND isn't just a collection of pics - it includes facts about the content, the studios and the photographers of the times. An absolute must-see whether you're turned on by men of porn's yesteryears or you're an avid porn historian!
Latest from Gaydemon - Holiday Edition
A week goes by like no time at all when you've got plenty of porn to surf. Here we are, in the second to last week of December, which means the holidays are upon us. Luckily even during the holidays we have plenty of fresh porn submitted to Gaydemon, and we can't wait to share some of the hardcore highlights with you.
Let's start with a blog listing site that's recently gone though some changes. I'm talking about Best Male Blogs, and there are some serious improvements happening on this site. It's easier to find the blogs and the ratings system is lots more fun. Regular new blog listings are also easy to find. If you like all sorts of video and pic blogs, Best Male Blogs is definitely worth checking out.
There are a few new free sites listed that are of interest....
What's New on Gaydemon
Hi, fellow porn-lovers! We decided to try a new feature. After a week of adding gay porn sites to Gaydemon, we thought we'd summarize some of the sites that stand out each week. We'll tell you what was hot - and maybe what was not - in each category. Let's start with a couple free sites that stood out this week!
Into video clips? We've got a couple new sites this week with sex that isn't just the average studio shoots, but are guys who look like they are really into it. Here's a free site called Fucked by Wild Bear that offers 12 very hot videos of men in action. I wouldn't actually say they're bears, but they are hairy and judging from the videos, they're having one hell of a good time. Videos are in MPG format. And here's another one. This one's titled "Straight guy takes a cock in the ass" - pretty self-explanatory, don't you think? There are 6 video clips in WMV format, and looks like a good time is being had by all!
What Frightens You?
Do you have an irrational fear of something? I mean are there things out there that scare you, that make you tremble, or get into a cold sweat? Think it is simply because, well stuff is scary, or maybe you are suffering from some phobia? It is possible, after all it seems that Head Doctors have a phobia for just about anything that gets you nervous. Hey, they gotta pay for those leather couches, when they aren't taking a nap.
I mean there seems to be a psychiatric phobia for just about anything someone is afraid of, that is irrational or some sort of mental disorder. Now, what, simply because I am gay, am I also suffering from Gynophobia? (fear of women)
I mean, yeah I know a few women that would frighten any sane person, but do I fear them just because I am a Homosexual?
Which brings up how we coin words to suit something, such as Homophobia. It is the irrational fear of Homosexuals, which is you and me, but let's be honest. That is nothing more than medical clap trap to excuse Racism. By the way, check out what the meaning of Racism is, the irrational fear and/or hatred of some group, or minority. And that is different from Homophobia how Doctor Shrink?
You a Gusher or Dribbler?
Simple enough question, do you gush when you cum, or do you just sort of dribble?
Funny thing is, I think we all can be gushers, and dribblers too, depending on the mental picture we have conjured up, while stroking our dick. Like I can usually tell if the wife enjoyed his visual stimulation, by how he cums. Seriously, when he whacks off, which he does a lot, if the video or photographs are not totally hot, he tends to dribble, more than he gushes.
In some ways, that can be deflating too, though I have to admit, when he and I have sex, he tends to shoot more than dribble, but there have been times. Which makes me wonder, what the hell was I doing wrong, or what was he thinking of, at the time.
I wonder, when you see so many porn stars who just dribble, when they cum, if they are simply bored, or is it from the drugs or booze? I mean some say that many of these guys are hooked on drugs or booze, though again, I wonder if even that is real.
Don't Blink
Was watching a nice little porn flick the other night, and the wife commented on how cool it was to watch this one hot little stud, shoot his load over his shoulder. Seriously, the guy was pounding his dick and then suddenly his whole body went rigid, his face constricted and you could hear his heavy breathing quicken, then wham, this stream of cum went flying from between his clenched fist, all the way past his shoulder.
Least the slow motion replay that was run right after helped confirm it, which I thought was rather thoughtful of the producers.
I mean nothing like seeing jizz flying through the air, in all its tasty globular form, and seeing the shaking body underneath, as the muscles uncoil. Each detail captured frame by frame.
Now, not every cum scene should be repeated, even in regular speed, given that you can tell its phony. Then too, there is the 'blink once' and suddenly you are watching two new porn stars kissing, or undressing.
Who Comes Up With These Terms?
While there are lots of cultural differences, and nuances, sometimes you just need to lean back and laugh at some of the names or terms used to describe a body part. I mean come on, tell me you haven't sometimes wondered what another was talking about when they said they had some 'beef in the can' or some other phrase that just well, didn't seem appropriate for what you were talking about?
Just who comes up with these terms for things like a penis? When did we start calling it 'salami' or 'dipstick'? I mean I know that salami is a meat product, which okay, a dick is meat too. However salami is usually a mixture of other things too, not just pure meat, so what, when you are talking about your dick, it is somehow not all yours? Or is it because a dick is also made up of tissue, blood, nerves, and stuff, that makes it like a salami, or is it simply because it is tubular, and sticks out?
But then, if it is soft, it sure doesn't resemble any stick of Salami I ever saw at the local deli.
Piercings: Turn on or Turn Off?
Yesterday the "wife" & I were out trolling at the local shopping mall. I mean it was a Saturday and well, it was rather a nice break to go down to the local mall, to see all the hot stuff walking around, and let me say, there were a ton. Still, we also checked into our local cel phone store, to ask about an issue with our phones, and the sales clerk had one of those piercings, in his lower lip.
I don't know but for me it was rather, well, a turn off. To be honest, I can't tell you if he was cute or not, or if he had sexy eyes, or anything else about him. All I can recall is that silver little loop sticking out from his lower lip, and it made me wonder about those who do body piercings.
My biggest question is, Why?
Some say it is about making a statement, others say it is a fad, or some other disorder that makes people pierce their body. Like really, sticking a needle through the foreskin of your dick, then ramming some metal tube through it? Like what is that all about?
Two Minute Sex Drill
Seems we all live a hectic lifestyle, just trying to make ends meet, but are we sacrificing too much for that buck? I mean back in the day, when I was young and had more days ahead of me than behind me, when we talked about sex, it was about taking the night to get naked, to get involved with our partner.
Even for those casual affairs, it was generally not like it seems it is, today. Then you would still take pleasure in watching or helping, the other person get naked. They in turn, enjoyed helping you unbuckle the belt, and undo the pants. If not, well, they were usually watching your every movement, and you could see the excitement building.
Course there were one or two where you could see the boredom too, but that was rare, and yet today more and more people talk about the two minute drill, like they were playing football or something. I mean you hear it a lot these days, about well the commercial came on, so we fucked, finishing just in time to see the rest of the show.
Now I don't know, are commercial breaks taking longer, or are we taking less time for sex?
