Today we get lucky - we're talking with country boy and masculine top Tom Wolfe, and he is SO sexy! If you like a hairy body, nice trim beard and a big juicy cock, read on as Tom Wolfe tells us all about his life in porn, and shows us he not only knows how to fuck - there's a sharp mind in that yummy body!
Anthony: How'd you become interested in porn? Tell us about how you got started in the business.
Tom: I think it came from the fascination and attraction of watching porn on the internet before I really began messing around with guys. Watching the early SeanCody, Falcon and Colt guys really turned me on. I thought it would be amazingly hot to join the ranks of these guys; however I never thought of myself as being a model. In fact, I never thought that anyone would find me attractive nor would want me as part of their collection of guys for their company. I do not look at myself as being attractive or unattractive. I see myself as me, just me; no more, no less!
So how did I get started in the industry? Interesting question I must say, having somewhat of two discovery dates in my career. First, soon after high school I started working with a photographer named James W. Johnson, not too far from our farm. I began a professional relationship with him, shooting posters and fine art photography including implied nudes and nudes. The work ended up on RagingSensations.com where prints of fireman posters I posed for could be purchased. James was good friends with the owner of CorbinFisher.com and I soon found myself shooting a solo video with CF shortly after my pictures had been submitted. After a rigorous shoot I was not sure if desired to continue in the adult industry. Battling the monster of being found out or outed at the time also made it easier to not want to continue.
Then several years later after making many friends in the adult industry, I was asked by a friend to attend the Grabby's with him in Chicago. While there I just happened to walk in front of the Falcon group before the show started. Falcon Director John Bruno and Casting Director Troy Prickett leapt towards me as John was sticking his finger in a hole in my jeans inquiring if I was wearing underwear? To which I didn't answer at first, so his second question was if I was a model and which studio I worked with. My response was I suppose I was, but not an adult model. Contact information was exchanged and then I finally informed him that on the contrary to his belief I was actually wearing a jockstrap. By the next week phone calls and emails were buzzing with plans to attend a shoot the following week in Los Angeles with Massive Studios which began the career of Tom Wolfe.
Anthony: What do you like best about being in porn, and is there anything you don't like about it?
Tom: I have to say that the best thing for me is the people. I have made some amazing friends since I began working in the industry, from models to directors to fans and board members of the company. The people are great and I love seeing everyone's faces light up when we are all together. There are several of us that stick together and have created a brotherhood. We have each other's backs and are there for each other through thick and thin.
The thing that I like the least about the industry is the widespread assumption that anyone who is in the adult industry is brainless, lazy, drug addict, whore, escort or any combination listed or not listed. I find it very upsetting when people label and judge others before they have ever gotten to know who they are.
My parents stressed to me when I was growing up to be accepting and open minded, give others an opportunity to prove or disprove themselves before you determine if you like or dislike someone. I have spent my entire lifetime this far working my ass off to surround myself with those honourable and upstanding persons. In all reality that's all we can do is determine if we like or dislike someone, it's not our place to pass judgement on any other individual.
Big thank you to the Wolfe Pack and the Porn Posse! Love you all always!
Anthony: Top or Bottom? Which do you prefer and what's your favorite position?
Today we're talking with masculine top, Tom Wolfe. He's hairy and hot, and absolutely
Tom: Top, you have seen my work right?
I am an aggressive top. I love to take control and take exactly what I want. If it's not somewhat of a challenge I am bored, and will hit it and quit it, as they say. What really turns me on is mental control. Having a partner that pushes his boundaries because he trusts me and wants to grow and experience me and what we both can do together.
I love to drive it deep and hard! My all-time favourite position is with my bottom boy on his back so I can see his eyes and watch his face as I pleasure his tight hole. I want his hips twisted to his left as I straddle his left leg and his right leg over my left shoulder. This allows me to fuck like an animal penetrating deep and hard, with my right arm able to reach under him and help support his lower back giving it the desirable arch. While my left arm holds him in place and tightly to my body, just in case I get one that tries to squirm away.
So who's next?
Anthony: What is your ultimate sexual fantasy? Who would you most like to work with in porn?
Tom: Oh my, you are making me have to think now!
I would most certainly have to say it would be with a masculine rough and wild farm boy like myself who was born and raised in the country; used to working cattle, riding horses, cutting bulls, bucking hay and doesn't mind getting nasty or a hard day's work. i want to be able to feel each other's rough and calloused hands as we rough house each other's bodies as we gear up for a rough hard fuck. Completely dominating my bottom boy and locking his head in the head chute that we used to cut bulls earlier that day. Pulling the squeeze lever and tightening the squeeze chute down on him not letting him be able to get away. Slowly sliding in showing a bit of compassion as his tight hole stretches around my throbbing cock, watching and feeling as he takes a deep breath as I pull back and nail him good and hard. Hard enough it would make him bellar out like a calf getting dehorned. As I continue to pound him forcing his load to explode all over the floor of the chute then pulling out of him and busting my nut all over his sweat drenched back.
As far as whom I desire to work with, there are three that jump to the top of my list: Paul Wagner, Heath Jordan and Shay Michaels. I have had a huge crush on Paul since the first time I have ever seen his work. These three super sexy men absolutely make my blood boil! Just imagine a 4-way fuck fest with all of us!? The masculinity, musculature, body hair and overall sexiness are such a turn on!
Anthony: What's it like having sex on camera compared to in your private life? Ever been nervous or couldn't get it up for a shoot?
Tom: I feel like sometimes with sex on set that the cameras and lights get in the way. Especially when I am really into the person and want to just enjoy myself versus working to document it so all our fans can enjoy for their sexual pleasures. I really enjoy working on set, but I must admit that sex off camera is much better. There is no time lost for trying to make sure that the correct angle shows the perfect penetration on screen.
The only time that I was ever nervous was the first solo shoot I did with CorbinFisher. It took forever to film. I couldn't stay hard and I let my mind think too much about my surroundings: hot lights, cameras, camera men and crew watching me jack-off. I soon learned how to focus and channel my thoughts to benefit me the best way possible. That has been a long time ago and I feel like I have matured and seasoned a lot since that day.
Anthony: How has everyone around you accepted your decision to become a porn star? Do you have a relationship outside of work? What are some of your hobbies?
Tom: I have found that in my life the people around me embrace me and are very supportive. Having sex on set is one of the safest places to ever have sex! My friends and family know that. I have come to the conclusion that if you are not accepting of me and accept me for who I am then that is your own personal problem and not mine. I used to get the response from people when I started talking to them of "Oh my, you're a model?! I cannot talk to you!" me replying back with "What? I do not understand please explain." The explanation I received was that I would be taking up too much attention from their friends, stealing their spotlight. I think that response is absolutely ridiculous and if you are that insecure with yourself, I have no business associating with you.
Although I have found that women are completely accepting of the fact that I am a porn star, where some men are less accepting. I have been told that they see it as a form of cheating instead of a job to produce a product. I can reason with that statement; however I feel that if you are truly interested in me you will want to put more effort into the situation and learn what I am all about instead of a condemnation of a possible relationship.
Anthony: Has working in the adult industry changed your personal life?
Tom: To be truthfully honest, it really has! The industry has taught me to be even more open minded and accepting to things that I do not fully understand or find normal, appealing or sexually appealing. The brain is the strongest muscle in the body and knowledge is the exercise that strengthens that muscle. Having an open mind and exercising our natural curiosity can make a positive change in our lives. I feel that the adult industry has increased my odds of exposure to interesting lifestyles, sexual practices, and cultural paradigms that I possibly would never had the experience to participate in had I not been. The adult industry has also given me the ability to grow into myself even more.
Anthony: Do you have time for a love life of your own, are you in a relationship? What are some of your hobbies outside of the bedroom?
Tom: Now that is something that I have been working on. It has been a slow go all because of one bad and nasty relationship. I have had one boyfriend since the eye-opener. He is amazing! We are still friends and I have nothing but respect for him. We were both in different stages of our lives and amicably parted ways. However, I still have trust issues from the relationship with the "crazy" that stole my identity and alienated me from all my friends and family. It was such a nasty ordeal that I had to hire an attorney and involve the police. Therefore, I am still very guarded as to whom I let close to me especially in an intimate setting. So no, I currently am not in a relationship.
Spending quality time with family and friends helps to keep me grounded and well adjusted to my surroundings. I think it is essential for a healthy life to have that bond between the people you love most. I also love being outside around animals and riding horses is among one of my all time favourite things to do. I love to stay active; I really enjoy visiting our State and National Parks because it gets you up and outside while getting tons of exercise as well as expanding your knowledge about local, national and natural history.
Anthony: Got any big projects or news on the way?
Tom: I actually do have some projects in the works. Some are just on the table currently and are being discussed regarding feasibility. However, I am at liberty to break the news about my own product line that will be soon hitting the market, called WolfeWear™. My products will be able to be purchased on my website first and then I will begin branching out and networking more after I have established a strong business plan.
Anthony: Where can new fans find you? Do you have a web site, Facebook or MySpace account, blog or Twitter?
Tom: I can be found on my website at: www.tomwolfexxx.com
Facebook Fan Page: TheWolfePack