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Back in October I introduced you to my tutorial series on the art of cock sucking. In that first post I encouraged you to pay attention to the signals your partner is giving you. He'll let you know - or he should - through his moans and groans what feels good.
So today I thought I'd talk about technique. The art of giving good head is to make sure that you're using lots of technique. I've had guys jump on my cock and they immediately start pumping away like we're doing a sprint. First of all, as a cocksucker, you just can't sustain that momentum for very long; and second of all, I never really find that kind of cock sucking a turn-on.
A man's cock is the center of his universe and you should show him how much you love it. And the key to giving a man a blowjob that he'll remember is to play it like a long, slow symphony, building him up to that final moment when you're trying to get his balls to unload. This guy from Chaos Men is clearly loving this head session. He can't take his eyes of this cocksucker as he slides his mouth all over this guy's big cock.
I like to start things off slowly. I explore a guy's cock with my lips and tongue, licking, sucking, kissing, and teasing. I notice how the guy's cock responds and what he likes. Some guys like you to focus on their cock head, others like feeling their dick pressed down your throat. Remember, you're not in a race here; the more time you spend worshiping this guy's cock, the hotter he'll get. And sucking cock is game; you have to figure out with your mouth what this guy really likes. Think of a blowjob as an exploration rather than a project with a goal.
When I settle in to suck a guy's cock I try to think about giving him an experience where the next time he sees me on the street, he pops a boner just remembering it. Or maybe he drags me home for an encore - better yet.
Some lovingly long and slow pumps in your mouth will get him hard, and once erect, you can start exploring what kinds of things he likes. In the early stages of giving head, I always hold a guy's cock, I look at it, I tell him how much I love it. A guy likes thinking that he's got the best cock in the world. I kiss it and lick it. I hold it hard and rub it up and down on my tongue. Then when he thinks I'm just going to tongue tease him, I dive in and deep throat him. And he groans loudly. Then when he thinks he's gotten everything I got, I flex my throat muscles around his cock head.
The thing about pumping hard on a cock is that, yes it feels good, but if that's all you're giving a guy he knows what to expect. He eventually dump his load, but it may take a while. If you keep him guessing about what you're going to do that'll make it more exciting for him. If he thinks you're going to going all the way down on his cock and you don't, it'll be all the more exciting the next time when you finally do.
Varying this slow and fast technique will drive your man crazy. When you're pumping hard and you feel like he's getting close, you hold back and cool him down with some slow moves. Build him back up. This man isn't going to cum until you're ready to let him. And when he does, you may end up in his top ten hottest blowjobs.
Chaos Men has a series of servicing videos where a guy is blindfolded and bound to a chair, then some expert cocksucker gives him head. Watch some of these videos and study the technique, you'll be able to add some of these techniques to your own bag of tricks.
If you missed my first tutorial, you can catch up here: The Art of Sucking Cock.
Written by Joe Spunk
Published on 07 Dec 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
There is a definite leaning towards the well-endowed at Tabloid Heat, a blog that's all about finding pics of male celebs and showing you everything they've got. Well, as much as they can find as it's hard to find celebs baring all. But if you consider a Big Brother contestant a celeb, and maybe they are for a while, then you will find some neat images here. There's some Hollywood A list actors caught dangling on cam, porn stars in the news, Playgirl models showing all and other celebs appearing in tasteful erotic poses for glossy magazines. But really the regularly updated blog is all about titillation, and I don't mind admitting I had a great time browsing around. I was tempted to leave notes and comments, but I got distracted by the video and image links, the funnies and the 'inappropriate gif of the day' feature. All great fun, very addictive and if you're got dirt to dish, you can send it right in.
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Published on 07 Dec 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
Master Rick shares his philosophy, his stories, his thoughts and experiences, and also his photographs at his own personal site. It's all free here, it's like a blog mixed with a personal site, and there is lots to read and see even though this is a new place on the web. I found it interesting to read some of his writings, and there is a Foreword page you need to start with. Some of the chapters did ramble on a bit, I thought, but in there are great insights into the life of slaves and Masters. Combine these with the images, the household manual for slaves, the Master's schedule and other tips and advice for slave and Master wannabies, and you've got an informative place to visit as well as an interesting and one.
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Published on 07 Dec 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
Tom And Lorenzo are a couple of gay guys who decided that the web needed their presence. This was ages ago now, and since they launched their first blog they've gathered something of a big following. Their blog site is all about pop culture, with a special focus on celebrity fashion. They've got this cheery, camp turn of phrase that really comes across in the way they write the blog; you read and it's like listening. And they really do know their subject matter. The main page is constantly being updated with pics of fashion models and hot celebs and there are other pages to check out too. These are dedicated to their favorite TV shows, musicals and photographers. You feel like you've been invited in to sit in a chintz covered living room while you sip tea and listen to these two queens chat politely about their favorite things. But there is also attitude; as they say themselves, they are fabulous and opinionated. Darling.
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Published on 03 Dec 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
Satoshi Minakawa is a photographer of fashion, advertising, landscapes and sexy hunky men. He has his own site for his fashion and other photography, and he's got Gay Times as his site for his other passion - hot, gloriously sexy men. This is the kind of photography that would not look out of place in calendars, coffee table books and in your favorite collections online.
It's image driven. Click a 'recent post' and you will find images rather than texts. Having said that, you're able to write comments if you want to start a discussion. And as for the eye candy, you're going to see images of porn stars Charles Dera, and Cayden Ross among the likes of Marcus Patrick when he posed for Playgirl. I am not sure if all these images are by Satoshi Minakawa, but I am sure it's a neat, interesting and often erotic collection of some very fine guys and very fine images.
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Published on 02 Dec 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
It's wall to wall naked men over at Sultry Dudes. Yes, the first guy I happened upon did look sultry but I don't think they take their title too literally here. The other guys I caught ranged from twinks to bodybuilders, bears to your classic stud. It's all about grabbing full length videos and pics, and samples from some of the top gay hardcore sites around and posting them up so you've got a daily dose of queer. And porn. And erotica. And even some humor and cartoons. A neat mix of stuff for sure, and a place that you can get slightly involved with, too; there was a poll running and lots of social networking links. But it looks to me like this blog is one of those "gotta check out everything" kind of sites. There's more image content than words, which means you click over, look around, get inspired by plenty of cock.
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Published on 30 Nov 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
Have you noticed that Wild Ass Dude's initials spells out WAD? I only mention it because you're going to shoot your wad over these pics, especially if you are an ass-lover. The guy behind this blog sure is; the site is wall to wall (and slightly off my screen) ass worship, ass play, self-fisting, helping-hand fisting, stretched wide holes, dildos of titanic proportions and, well, anything to do with butts and no buts. You've got plenty of play sessions recorded at home, or rather at college where our host still is, and you've got loads of pics and clips from all over the web, too. It really is an ace ass specialist blog with 'ass of the week' and archives going right back. Click around the posts and you find you can comment and leave messages so you can get right in there and get involved. A really neat place for all ass and assplay lovers.
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Published on 29 Nov 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
We all know we should do more of it, we all like to watch other guys doing it, but how many of us actually get up and do it? I'm talking about exercise and I, for one, do all I can to avoid it. So, when I saw Workout Inspiration, I realized that I'd found a place that could help me with a fitness regime. This is a neat blog site packed with handy tips for better health, better workouts and fitness. You can use it as a place to discover how to make your regime work better, how to lose weight, or how to improve your gym techniques. Or you can use it as a place to come and watch other guys work out in videos and in images, read articles and interviews, and if you're anything like me, you can simply use it as a place to look at well built chests, bulging lycra and some gorgeous guys who have paid more attention to their workouts than I ever will to mine.
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Published on 28 Nov 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
Gotta love the title! Pink Is The New Blog is very pink, in the background, and very easy to read with its straightforward style. I guess it's a USA-based blog, as there are many features and posts about American TV and Hollywood movies. But the news comes in and gets discussed from all over the world as followers comment and join in. And it's not all about gay stuff either, though it is mainly about entertainment, and the way this blog is written can be slightly camp. But it's a nice place to chill out at over a cup of coffee, have a browse, catch up on celeb gossip and view some TV trailers and clips. A little bit of everything from a mildly camp perspective that keeps you up to date with what's hot and what's not in the world of entertainment.
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Published on 26 Nov 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
Basically it's all about men. Men enjoying their bodies, you enjoying them enjoying themselves, men enjoying other men... Whichever way you look at it, Man Hunt is simply about men. You've got a neat blog here, nicely set out, that's full of images from all over the place, but they are all images of men. Hung, redhead, huge, naked, shirtless, older, tattooed, muscled, models, amateurs, groups, hard, soft, asses and erotic, and that's just from a quick glance. There's also a neat list of guys' names so if you see one you recognize you can leap straight to the feature on him, and check out his pics. Leave your comments or hook up on your social networking sites, and follow this blog that's simply about hot pics of naked men.
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Published on 25 Nov 2011 in Editors Pick | Comments
